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The Truth About Jim And Pam

We could learn a thing or two from everyone's OTP.

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The Truth About Jim And Pam

If you are a die-hard "The Office" fan or anything resembling that, it's likely that Jim and Pam were your one true pair at some point. If you watched "The Office" while it aired or at least in chronological order on Netflix, there's no doubt you were agonizing over their relationship from the start. It may sound silly to analyze a fictional relationship, but I believe there were some real-world truths to this fairy-tale romance.

Firstly, the success of Jim and Pam's relationship was rooted in their friendship. They were friends from the beginning. They always supported and rooted for each other even when they were dating other people. Who could forget the scene where Pam selflessly told Jim to stop being silly and allow things to move forward with Karen, his current girlfriend? I think with any relationship there should be an element of friendship apart from the romance. There should be laughter, jokes, advice, encouragement and deep conversations. Jim and Pam were there for each other, and they always had each other's backs. Their solid foundation started long before they dated, and I love that.

With that in mind, they both took a risk by waiting for each other. After toying with our hearts for three seasons, the writers finally gave us what we wanted. We all breathed a sigh of relief and shed a few tears when Jim finally asked Pam out. In hindsight, we all tell ourselves that they were meant to be together, and there's no way they could have ended up with other people. It is admirable that they waited for each other, but even Pam admitted in the last episode that she wanted to scream at herself while watching the documentary. The lesson to be learned form this? Don't wait around for something if you can avoid it. Trust yourself and your instincts. I think in the end, they both finally embraced this philosophy. It just took three freaking seasons for it to happen.


Lastly, Jim and Pam were not perfect at all. Aside from dating other people and blatantly ignoring the fact that they were in love for years, they had other problems that surfaced in the last season due to Jim wanting to leave Dunder Mifflin for an investment opportunity. This resulted in a lot of miscommunication and tension. They even ended up going to marriage counseling. Knowing that they had problems may have shocked a lot of the audience, but it was honestly a relief to see that. Relationships take work no matter how in love you are with each other or how long you've been together. I think the real beauty of Jim and Pam's relationship lies in how much they cared about each other. They were both willing to make sacrifices and take steps to fix problems, and in the end, that made them a stronger couple and family

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