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The 10 Struggles of Being "The Black Kid"

No, I'm not related to the other black kid.

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For the entirety of my life, I've lived and learned in a privileged and predominantly white environment. My race was never an issue with my classmates and teachers, and I always, in the end, felt respected and equal. However, it wasn't until I became older that I realized I was "the black kid." Being "the black kid" wasn't a bad thing, but with that, there are some minor issues that rise. Here are ten struggles of being "the black kid."

1. Your Hair Tends to Become a Subject

Yes, it grows out of me like this.

2. Being Told That You Act "White"

Just because I play "A Thousand Miles" by Vanessa Carlton on repeat doesn't mean I act White.

3. The Uncomfortable Moments in History Class

When slavery becomes a topic, all eyes are on you.

4. Being Asked if the "N" Word Offends You

If you have to ask me, of course it does!

5. Forcing Yourself to Like Stereotypical Black Things

I honestly hate Rap/Hip-Hop music and I don't watch "Empire."

6. Not Having Enough Black Friends

Finding other Black people to be friends with is like finding a pot of gold.

7. Never Understanding Why White People Tan

Seriously, though, why?

8. Having to Explain Why Lotion Is So Important

It's called "ash," and we don't like it.

9. No, I'm Not Related to the Other Black Kid

I know it's hard because we all look alike but, no, we aren't related.

10. You Really Can't Dance But White People Expect You to Be an Expert

I mean, I can do the "Cha Cha Slide...."

And so that concludes the struggles of being "the black kid." I love my white friends; they are funny, intelligent and we get along so well, but they will never understand or know my struggles. And I will never understand or know why they care so much about tanning or why "Gilmore Girls" is such a popular show.

After this article, I feel more proud and confident about me being an African-American. Before, being an African-American was just some box I checked because my skin color classifies me as that. Now, I'm black, and I'm proud. If you need me, I'll be listening to "A Thousand Miles" by Vanessa Carlton.

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