Everyone goes through a break up whether you didn't see it coming or you're the one who broke it off it still hurts. Especially if you have been fighting for the relationship and trying to make it work for a well. No matter the situation there are stages when going through a breakup.
The Sad Slump
You just broke up and you are hurting and all you what to do is to seat at home in the dark and binge watch your favorite show or movie till the pain of the break up subsides. You don't what to go anywhere see anyone, or talk about it's all just too painful.
Better Than Revenge
You want to throw on your favorite outfit your high heels and go out with you girls and dance with random strangers at his and his friend's favorite bar. Just to show him what he lost or to show his friends you are single again and how great you look. That look on either his friends or his face will be enough. Also, know that no girl after you can be on the same level.
Jealously
We all got through it we are only human. Jealousy whether we like to admit it or not we have all felt it, but it all determine on how you handle it. For me it is yes get mad and maybe dislike a girl, but then I remember that girl did nothing to me and I have no reason to look at her as competition over some stupid guy, a job maybe. Therefore, I will be nice to her. When going through a break up you will feel this you may find yourself creeping on the social media, yes it is bad, but again we all do it and like even other stages it will pass.
The Angry Stage
When going through a break up you will go through so many emotions and begin angry is one of them. You are angry with yourself for even letting it happen to you, but you are mostly angry at them of hurting you that bad. You think "how can someone hurt another human begin like this, when they supposedly care about them?" you may break thing of his or burn things of his any things that is a safe way to release it. For me it was boxing.
Nostalgia is a B***h
You are seating at home relaxing with a glass of wine in your hand thinking that you are finally getting over the breakup. Then all of sudden your song comes on. The song that holds so many good memories of him, the song that brings back all the good times and you start thinking if you made the right choice. STOP this is your brain playing tricks on you left for a reason remember that reason, replays that reason. Put the phone down and don't contract him. That song holds meaning for you, but does it hold the same meaning for him? Probably not.
You’re DONE!
You work through all these stages congratulations you reach the final stage.
You are done you went through sadness, jealousy, angry, regret and you made it. you have no energy left you can't talk about him the idea of he makes you tried. You know your worth and that you deserve so much better. than some immature little boy.
