Someone once asked me what my ideal perfect day would be, and I gave them the first answer that popped into my head. The most generic joke answer I could think of, just watch netflix all day. But then I got to thinking. What would my ideal perfect day be? I think a lot of the time people waste their days by just being sedentary, and trust me I am one hundred percent guilty of that, but if I had to think of my perfect day it would be doing something that would make the most of my 24 hours. I would wake up and hang out with the people I really care about, and do things that matter. I would make sure everyone that meant something to me in my life knew how much they meant. I would find a way to make a strangers life a little better, and probably eat the most amazing food I could imagine. I would find someone I could talk to for hours with, and actually take the time to talk to them for hours. I wouldn't be unsure if someone really cared about me, because they would remind me. I would spend the day not being confused or sad, but having a thorough knowledge of what was going on in my life. I think the best day would consist of not overthinking every little detail of your life. I would not get sad about what ifs, or things that happened in the past. The perfect day to me, would just be one where I am sure about everyone in my life, and they are sure about me. It would also probably consist of a field of flowers and like 10,000 puppies if I'm being honest. Life is short and I have realized lately just how precious it is. I wish everyone could think that way, and let it be known that you care about someone because you might not get another chance. I think the perfect day would just be one where you have it all figured out just for the day, where nothing seems to be going wrong, but if something does fixing it comes easily and without any sadness. What I want in my perception of the ideal day is not something extragagent or intense. Its pretty simple yet, it rarely ever happens. Just one where I am consistently happy all the way through, where no one is unkind, or messes with your head. Where people care about how their decisions effect other people. Just a day where everything is truly truly good, and no one is able to ruin it. One where you don't have to be in a state of worry, because you know exactly whats going on. I think one of the hardest parts about life is uncertainty. Without it the world would be so so much easier. A day where the only thing you were uncertain about was what adventure you were going to go on or what food you were going to eat sounds like the perfect day to me.
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Luckily, many colleges offer a number of ways to take part in campus and community life, without forcing you to dedicate all of your time to these organizations. Here are a few ideas!
1. Look into Housing and Dining.
Many first-year students start off college life in residence halls, and the Housing & Dining network throughout campus often provides multiple opportunities for students throughout the year. Many buildings have student community councils that work to create policies and events that make the dorms a more welcoming home for residents. Becoming a community assistant (or the students who work the desks at the front of many halls) is another easy way to have a consistent, well-paying job only minutes away from your room.
If you really enjoyed your housing experience, consider applying to be an RLA, or, if the school offers it, help to teach the first-year community. You'll get the chance to help support new and returning students over the year, and many of these positions also cover major costs like board and meal plans.
2. Pay attention to campus postings.
This advice is more obvious, but it still gets overlooked a fair amount. Even on a busy day, taking the time to stop around campus and look at the flyers advertising clubs and events can draw your attention to something that you never would've noticed otherwise. Students on many campuses also chalk the sidewalk to catch students' attention while they walk to class. Just make sure that the event you're interested in hasn't taken place already!
3. Find common interest groups.
One way to find friends and get involved is to focus on what you're passionate about. Have you always loved to sing? Do you enjoy playing video games? Is photography your favorite past-time? Have you always wanted to join Greek life? Whatever you love devoting your time to, chances are there are organizations around school who are focused on the same thing. Check the student life section of your university's website, or stop by a student organization fair at the beginning of the semester.
4. Join an intramural sports team.
If you're the athletic type, you've probably heard of intramural sports. Often offered through the Rec Center or the residence halls, most colleges often offer various indoor and outdoor sports to take part in throughout the year. Personal favorite? Mini golf.
5. Work on a cause that you care about.
Whether you're passionate about a political group, a social cause, or a religion, working with people who value beliefs similar to yours can be an easy way to meet people, get a better sense of your own identity, and promote causes that are important to you. Look into getting involved with College Democrats, Republicans, or whatever party that you belong to. Find a club that supports social issues, from women's rights to protecting the environment. If you're religious, look into student organizations based on your faith.
6. Join a club related to your major.
Even if you're not entirely sure what you want to do after school, finding a club or organization related to your field of studies can benefit you long after you leave the classroom. From career-related workshops to conferences to professional connections, these groups have a lot to boast.
7. Get an on-campus job.
If you have the time, need to work, or want to save a few extra dollars, finding a job on or near campus is a time-effective way to build up your bank account and gain work experience. Check in your residence hall (see #1), at local businesses and offices, or make an appointment with your school's career center.
8. Volunteer.
When you're caught up in school life, it can be hard to think about the bigger picture. Volunteering your time to people (or animals/an environment) in need puts things in perspective and allows you to feel good while making a positive difference. Check if your college town has a volunteer page, or look up local organizations requesting help.
Best of luck this year! Get out, and get busy.
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