Everyone dreams of coming to New York during the holidays — well, all who do not already know the reality of it. Sure, there are some really beautiful pictures of New York that make their way around the internet, but the sad truth is... New York during the holidays, is not at all as special as the South Pole itself. Sorry to be the one to break it to you. Below are the three biggest struggles in New York during the holidays.

1. Underneath The Tree

Rockefeller Center is the place to be, if you are willing to spend a few hours waiting that is. While it is said to be the "most magical" place during the holidays, it is also probably the busiest. If you wish to see the famous tree and perhaps go ice skating while you are at it, you will need to set a day aside. New York experiences are highly relevant to timing, make sure you plan accordingly. There is not much a reality to this except keep an eye out for a few proposals and swarms of tourists.

2. All I Want for Christmas...

It is well known that Times Square is the spot for tourists all year round- there's something about giant LED screens and entertainment all around. Times Square is always filled with crowds, but around the holidays? It somehow manages go over standard capacity. With stores everywhere, it is the place for all Christmas shopping to be done, and New York newbies definitely take advantage of that. Don't even think about New Years. Avoid it at all costs.

3. Let it Snow, Let it Snow, Let it Snow

The best for last.

I think it is safe to say everyone has seen at least one picture of the Manhattan area, perfectly covered in a layer of snow. Tree branches covered in the white flecks, white lights wrapped all around, the street completely untouched. If only it were to stay that way. Snow in New York is only that aesthetically pleasing when it first falls. Give it an hour or two before us New Yorkers start making our daily commute. All that once glistened is now a great pile of slush. If you are lucky, you can make it over.

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While New York may be a bit extra chaotic during the holidays, it truly is something to experience. Don't let the swarm of tourists discourage you. Whether you have lived in New York for quite sometime or none at all, you have got to come out and see it all for yourself. Pictures will not do it justice. And once you have done so, you can say you saw New York for what it really is, and yet still, somehow managed to appreciate the aura of it all.