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The First-Generation Student

Being a first-generation student is bittersweet.

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What is a first-generation student? Well, by definition, a first-generation student is “a student whose parents have not completed a bachelor’s degree,” or a student who is the first within their immediate family to attend a four-year university. If you already knew that, I’m sure you know what else it means to be an FG; the emotional and psychological toll and the stress of being a FG brings. Often, FG students have a harder time transitioning and adjusting to college life. Unfortunately, their struggles are overlooked or underestimated by their peers and the society around them.

Let me get right to it: nearly 50 percent of all college students are first generation. 25 percent of those FG students are low-income, and the majority of all FG students probably struggled in secondary school, without a solid source of homework help at home or lack of guidance in extracurriculars and opportunities. The truth is, the majority of these FG’s probably spent their time after hours in the home taking care of siblings or in a job to help provide for the family. We’re talking about students who have a higher risk of dropping out of college, being employed lower than their potential, and students who will tend to stick to the wall, who won’t consider career options outside of what they know.

Being a first-generation student comes with the psychological pain and second-guessing that most college students will never experience. FG’s might feel guilty for leaving their families, feeling that they might need help providing for the home. Some students may feel as if they’re betraying or insulting their parents by pursuing a higher education. Both situations can lead the student to feel as if they must have two personalities; one for college and one for home. These personalities tend to lesson the student’s fear of rejection or shame. Because first-generation students aren’t as addressed or encouraged as they ought to be, the stress that a student can feel may hinder their educational experience.

Despite their situation, FG’s have big plans and dreams for their futures, futures that don’t leave their families discluded. According to a study done by qz.com, 69 percent of FG’s say they plan to help their families out after they complete their schooling, while only 39 percent of regular students say the same. FG’s are passionate about their education and future, and make the most of their experience in hopes of providing a brighter future for themselves and for others.

Being a first-generation student is not a consequence or a disability. It’s something to take pride in, something society should applaud its young students for. There is pride to be taken in being a FG, take it from me. The road isn't easy; it’s hard to be on your own in such an important time in our lives. But the effort is well paid off, be proud of your accomplishments. Pat yourself on the back, FG. You’re doing it.

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