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The Essentials Of A Good Relationship

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The Essentials Of A Good Relationship
Madison-Ali Myers

When one hears the word, "relationship," they often think of a girlfriend or boyfriend. While this is a very important relationship, we need not forget that we have numerous relationships in our lives. Whether it be a friend, teacher, significant other or family member, sometimes we just need to be reminded how to nurture that. Here are the essentials on having a positive relationship.

Really, what it all comes down to is investment. Whomever it may be, you, as a significant part of the relationship, need to be there. As I grow older, I hold firm to the belief that we should not waste our time here on this Earth. Give to the people who give to you. Sometimes, even give to the people who do not.

Okay, so this one really is for you couples. It is not your fault that it did not work out. The two of you were in two different places, and that is okay. Quit faulting yourself and asking, "What if?" I promise, you are on a destined path. If it was your fault the relationship did not work out, make amends and move forward. However, do not make the same mistake twice.

HAVE FUN. Have fun with the people you care about. Go on adventures, laugh, take pictures and always seize the moment. Your life is short.

Be impactful. If there is something you can say that can benefit someone, SAY IT. You can be the light. You can inspire someone in ways you cannot imagine. You can change someone and, also, allow others to inspire you.

Lift one another up. If someone is important to you, it is crucial that you never tear a friend or partner down. You are their rock, so behave as such.

Although you already know this, sometimes it is nice to be reminded. Be there. It matters.

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