You can have any girl you want. We both know you are attractive and can offer more than the standard under thirty male. You have a house, a car, and maybe some loans but nothing you cannot handle. Your house has enough room for you and maybe a child or two. I know you are not ready for kids but it is good to know that if something happens, you have the room to take house them. I have seen you in action. Your “pick up” game is strong. You have a certain ease and confidence to your approach. You just walk up to a girl and she seems to be hypnotized by you. I hope it is not that curse. You put it on them so quickly and you did not even feed them. They never had the chance to save themselves. Your clothes aren't so shabby. I don't know what your business attire or dress clothes look like. When I met you, you couldn't even do something as simple as iron your shirt. Personally, that is a turn off but given your other skills and qualifications, you can be trained upon employment. Also, from the looks of it, you seem in shape. Your clothes are shabby but your body is not. Given I have not known you long, I can see why females would want to hold on to you so tight.

Now, I cannot have any male I want. First, I would like to say that I have never approached a guy. Honestly, I am not interested in approaching a guy. Believe it or not. I am shy. I do not have the confidence to really put myself out there. I am not homeless but the house I live in is not in my name. I have a car and no loans. My debt is minimal including my car and credit cards. I do not have any kids and do not want any for a while. At parties or any social event, I can hold a conversation with ease and confidence. I do enjoy an occasional social event but at heart I like to stay at home. I know for a fact that I am not hypnotizing people as I meet them. I wish I could though. When I go out, club or house party, I iron my damn clothes. You never know who you may run into and I need to make sure that I look great. Along with looking nice for the club, my business attire is pretty clean. You will probably never see me in my business clothes but I am just letting you know. You have some years on me so, you should be more established than me. I do bring something to the table besides being the table. I am educated; en route to being Ciara Boyd, PhD. Currently, I am in my masters program and majoring in Mathematics. I do work and still conduct my research for my graduate degree. I keep my body right by not eating everything that comes my way and knowing how to walk further than upstairs and downstairs. Lastly, my favorite drink is water which proves I am not an alcoholic.

It is not as a you versus me thing. I think it really just boils down to men versus women. To be honest, he’s just not that into you.