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To The Boy Who Broke My Best Friend's Heart; You Need To Hear This

I never liked you from the start...

Ashley Denton
May 13, 2018
Albany, NY
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To The Boy Who Broke My Best Friend's Heart; You Need To Hear This
Ashley Denton

I hope you’re reading this because i sincerely would like to thank you.

Thank you for breaking my best friend's heart. Now, you might be thinking that I'm crazy, but seriously, thank you. Because of you, she now knows her self-worth and is more confident than ever.

So yes, for that I thank you.

I mean, you may know this, you may not, but I NEVER LIKED YOU! I hated the games you played with her head, the mental control you had on her but also the way you treated her! I can't count the number of times she has cried to us that you hurt her mentally and physically, do you honestly think you are a “man” when you do that? I hope you know that hurting a woman in ANY WAY does not in any way make you a “man.”

What it does make you is a d****bag. I knew something seemed fishy about you from the beginning and I was proven right.

I knew something was up the first time I met you, you had an attitude and a sarcastic “player” attitude to you and since then, I knew you would be nothing but trouble and then once she moved in with you, it seemed to be that you didn’t want her hanging out with her BEST FRIENDS but you were all about her making friends with your best friends girlfriends... That's when I made up my mind about you.

After a while of her being with you, I could sense a difference in her. She hadn’t seemed her usual fun-loving carefree self. She started talking about a future that I knew she didn’t want but I swear you had her brainwashed to think that it's what she wanted when in all reality, it's what you wanted. She gave you EVERYTHING she had and for what??? For you to cheat on her and break her heart?? Does that honestly make you feel good about yourself?

I hope that, that night was worth it for you… Because of that, you will never get her back again, but that's your loss, not hers.

She's going to go on to do great things. She's going to school and following her dreams, she's hitting the gym every day and she is looking better than she ever has before. The best part about this, though, is that she is back to herself again… She's happy, mentally strong, and thriving. Something she never had the chance to do when she was with you. So again, I thank you for breaking her heart, because if you hadn’t f****ed up, I don’t think i would have my best friend back.

Sincerely, Her Best Friend

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