Carolyne Barry once said, “Most actors don’t see themselves as courageous because they are compelled to learn their craft and succeed, and don’t really understand how brave they are in pursing their dreams.” In March 2014, I had the opportunity to attend a workshop with Mark Jeter from The New York Conservatory for Dramatic Arts where we examined "The Seven Secrets of the Working Actor."

1. Working

The first secret to being a working actor is simply working. Everyday you should be doing at least one thing to advance your career. If you want it bad enough, you have to be willing to fight for it. You have to put yourself out there and just do it. Being fearless in your choices and open to risk-taking is key.

2. Relationships

This industry is all about relationships and networking. It's not about what you know, it's about who you know. Ask "What can I do for you?" not "What can you do for me?" Being an actor is giving what you can to others.

3. Losing

Most of the time, your talent has nothing to do with losing. Your success is based more off of how often you work.When you dedicate your life to the theater, you also submerge yourself into a life of rejection. However, somewhere along your journey you find that rejection exercises your vulnerability and strengthens you.

4. Choices

Do you want to get married?

Do you want kids?

How important is your financial stability in comparison to doing what you love no matter the cost?

There are several important choices that have to be made when deciding on whether or not you want to be a working actor. Many believe your work should be kept separate from your personal life. However, this is a career where your personal life has a huge effect on whether or not you work. You have to make selfish choices in this career, but those choices lead you to organic love and generosity. You will build communities and networks that will become family throughout your journey.

5. Strength

In order to be a working actor, you have to take care of yourself. This career is a marathon and it requires a strong physique and a strong heart. You never stop training. Be good to your body and be even better to your heart.

6. Craft

Keep your instrument strong. Craft and strength are similar requirements. The answer is always "Yes!" concerning your craft. Say yes to opportunities and people who make you strong. Say "Yes!" to being a student and engaging in classes, lessons and other learning experiences that will make you better.

7. Joy

Know the joy and nobility of being an actor. Don't ever let anyone take your light away from you and never give it away.