Every person wants something different from a relationship.

And knowing what your parents, friends and significant others look for in a relationship can help you have a better relationship with them. Whether they enjoy receiving gifts, hearing words of affirmation, or just spending time with those important to them, knowing what is most important to them will help you have healthier and happier relationships.

My college roommate introduced me to '"The 5 Love Languages." By marriage counselor, Dr. Gary Chapman, the 5 Love Languages official assessment uncovers your love language and helps you begin to improve a relationship. Your love language profile will explain your primary love language, what it means and how you can use it to connect with others.

With Valentine's day coming up, taking this quiz and asking your partner to do the same, could help you plan the best Valentine's Day you've had in a long time. Even if you think your relationships is going great and couldn't be better, being aware of each other's love languages could make a great relationship even better. Or if you struggle to get along with your mom, or if you even just want to be closer to your best friend, this Love Languages quiz will help.

Click "Learn Your Love Language" to take the quiz: http://www.5lovelanguages.com/

The 5 Love Languages are:

Words of Affirmation - You respond to words of praise.

Acts of Service - For you, actions speak louder than words.

Receiving Gifts - Receiving gifts makes you feel most loved and thought of.

Quality Time - Their undivided attention means the world.

Physical Tough - Just being able to hold someone's hand is all you ask.

Dr. Chapman has also written several books that can help with happiness in all aspects of your life. From "Rising Above A Toxic Workplace" to "The 5 Love Languages Singles Edition" and "The Love Languages of Teenagers," Dr. Chapman has covered it all.