Well, I did it. I'm living proof that the phrase "It Gets Better" is true. I have survived living in a small, conservative town for the last twenty years. I've been told some pretty nasty things and have been victimized to no end. I remember feeling alone, isolated, and feeling like nobody truly understood how of all the harassment made me feel. I was lucky to have a strong support system consisting of teachers, friends and family.
It wasn't until I was a sophomore in high school that I found my voice. My guidance counselor informed me I was nominated in to a diversity group that meets with other local school, and we come up with ways to stop bullying. That goal is pretty big and I strongly believe that we can end it. Nobody should have to go through the death threats, harassment in the locker room, online. None of that. It was then, my sophomore year, that I found my voice and had the courage to stick up for myself. I became the voice for those who couldn't speak for themselves. I was no longer going to allow innocent kids/teenagers be a target of abuse. Everyone of all races, sexual orientation, etc, should be free to live happily in any setting.
I am thankful that the people around me have supported me every step of my journey. I'm thankful to have a job in which it no big deal to anyone of my life choice. I want our society to accept everyone for who they are. I believe together we can out an end to hate. To anyone struggling out there, just know times will get easier. It may not be tomorrow or next month. however, as time goes on you will see changes in your life. Take you time and find your strength. Be the change you want to see. I found my voice during my sophomore year of high school- when will you find yours?
