As I get older I start to realize that "family" is not a static term. It doesn't just apply to the people who share blood with you, and the very definition changes as you do. Over these past few years you all have come to be a part of my family, and I don't know what I'll do without you next year. As hard as it may be, and as much as I don't want to write these words, I have a few things to say.
I want to start by thanking you. Four years ago I didn't even know you existed, and now I can't imagine going through my day-to-day activities without you. Thank you for answering my texts morning, noon or night. I know that if I need anything, you'll be there to help me. Thank you for listening to me complain about life, and for throwing pity parties with me when things don't go my way. Thank you for telling me what I need to hear, instead of what I want to hear. I know it's hard and the truth isn't always good, but I know you're looking out for my best interest. Always.
Thank you for believing in my dreams, and for pushing me to do my best. Without you there would've been a lot more unwritten papers and a lot less ambition. You support everything I do and I'm glad to have my own personal cheer squad when I'm feeling down. Thank you for reminding me of my worth, and never letting a bad test grade, bitchy girl or mean guy make me feel less than amazing. You have taught me how to be strong, and have helped me grow into the person I am today.
I know, without any doubt in my mind, that you will go on to do great things in your life. You may not have it all figured out right now, but I know you're going to be just fine. Throughout the time I have known you, you've shown me that you can accomplish anything you can set your mind to. You are skilled, determined and will absolutely crush adulthood.
Even though you won't be a five minute walk away from me next year, I know that you will still be by my side. If you need a break from the real world, or if I need advice, we still have each other. It's going to be hard, not being able to get lunch between classes or get ready for the bar together. I am so thankful for the time that we have been able to share together, but for now, I'm going to ignore the fact that you're graduating. I'm going to pretend that next year will be just like these past four: filled with love, laughter and memories.