Thank You, Lupita Nyong'o | The Odyssey Online
Start writing a post
Student Life

Thank You, Lupita Nyong'o

"Your dreams are valid."

14
Thank You, Lupita Nyong'o
Urban Islandz

I consider myself a reserved person, although I'm aware that most people would say I'm anything but that. Yes, I am a very outspoken and confident person even so, I do have trouble "letting people in". I might be an unapologetic goof in front of everyone, but there are many parts of myself that I don't share. I suppose one might say I have trust issues, and that'd be a fair assessment. That subject is for another time, though.

Ironically enough, the things I am most passionate about are often the things that I am most shy about. For example, I am not quick to talk about my dream of making movies when I grow up. There are a variety of reasons that I legitimately deep love for film, and I've always been a storyteller. Even so, I find myself somewhat ashamed whenever I am asked: "What do you want to be when you grow up?" Perhaps it is because my dream profession is not one commonly found where I come from. No one seems to have those obscure ambitions-you either go to college for a normal job or if you're lucky then you get to play professional sports. There are no filmmakers or writers, it seems like. There are some musicians, I will say that, but the number of those musicians who openly have professional aspirations remains small.

Recently, I went public with my passion for filmmaking. I just began production on a big short film project that I wrote and am directing. It's based on a true story from my local area, and so my team and I have sought to raise awareness about the story so that we can garner an audience for our thirty-minute film when it is finally released. I contacted my local newspaper, and an article was written about the project. That article ended up being a major success, and we've had many folks reach out to us since it's release wanting to help out with the movie. I personally have had a lot of people come up to me, asking about the film, and they do so with lots of interest.

Here lies to revelation: my passion is nothing to be ashamed of. People are not laughing at me because my dreams are crazy for a kid from Alabama. On the contrary, people in my hometown have offered overwhelming support. They're not patting me on the head and smiling as I pursue my youthful hobby-they're cheering my on as I get closer to success. By that I mean, they believe I can be successful and that is an extremely humbling feeling.

All of this support has brought back to me the words of Lupita Nyong'o in her 2013 Best Supporting Actress Oscar acceptance speech. After thanking all of her friends, family, and colleagues, Miss Nyong'o ends her emotionally empowered speech with a triumphant line...(fast forward to 3:20 for the end of the speech)


"No matter where you're from, your dreams are valid."

That quote has stuck with me over the last three years, but only now am I beginning to appreciate it. She uses the word valid. Synonyms for valid include logical, sound, reasonable, viable, and well-founded. To me, a kid from Alabama who wants to break into the film industry, such a statement is truly powerful.

My dreams are no less valid because of my home. If anything, my home is currently driving towards my dream. What was invalid was the idea that my home would hinder me in any sort of way? No one can stop you from doing what you love, except yourself. If life has taught me anything so far, it's taught me that your life is what you make it. People say that hard work can bring about anything, and it's often viewed as a cheesy sentiment. But I am here to say, with real life experiences to back me up, that sentiment is true. Hard work at whatever you love can truly allow for anything to happen.

To Lupita Nyong'o, thank you for helping teach me this important lesson. To my family, friends, and others in my hometown thank you for supporting me in my dreams. To the kid who feels like his/her dreams are impossible with their circumstances, I leave you with that quote from Miss Nyong'o.

"No matter where you're from, your dreams

are valid."
Report this Content
This article has not been reviewed by Odyssey HQ and solely reflects the ideas and opinions of the creator.
Gilmore Girls
Hypable

In honor of Mother’s Day, I have been thinking of all the things my mom does for my family and me. Although I couldn’t write nearly all of them, here are a few things that moms do for us.

They find that shirt that’s right in front of you, but just you can’t seem to find.

Keep Reading...Show less
Relationships

10 Reasons To Thank Your Best Friend

Take the time to thank that one friend in your life you will never let go of.

3661
Thank You on wooden blocks

1. Thank you for being the one I can always count on to be honest.

A true friend will tell you if the shirt is ugly, or at least ask to borrow it and "accidentally" burn it.

2. Thank you for accepting me for who I am.

A best friend will love you regardless of the stale french fries you left on the floor of your car, or when you had lice in 8th grade and no one wanted to talk to you.

Keep Reading...Show less
sick student
StableDiffusion

Everybody gets sick once in a while, but getting sick while in college is the absolute worst. You're away from home and your mom who can take care of you and all you really want to do is just be in your own bed. You feel like you will have never-ending classwork to catch up on if you miss class, so you end up going sick and then it just takes longer to get better. Being sick in college is really tough and definitely not a fun experience. Here are the 15 stages that everyone ends up going through when they are sick at college.

Keep Reading...Show less
kid
Janko Ferlic
Do as I say, not as I do.

Your eyes widen in horror as you stare at your phone. Beads of sweat begin to saturate your palm as your fingers tremble in fear. The illuminated screen reads, "Missed Call: Mom."

Growing up with strict parents, you learn that a few things go unsaid. Manners are everything. Never talk back. Do as you're told without question. Most importantly, you develop a system and catch on to these quirks that strict parents have so that you can play their game and do what you want.

Keep Reading...Show less
friends
tv.com

"Friends" maybe didn’t have everything right or realistic all the time, but they did have enough episodes to create countless reaction GIFs and enough awesomeness to create, well, the legacy they did. Something else that is timeless, a little rough, but memorable? Living away from the comforts of home. Whether you have an apartment, a dorm, your first house, or some sort of residence that is not the house you grew up in, I’m sure you can relate to most of these!

Keep Reading...Show less

Subscribe to Our Newsletter

Facebook Comments