A Thank You Letter To My RA
Start writing a post
Student Life

A Thank You Letter To My RA

You made me a better person.

1158
A Thank You Letter To My RA

Before coming to school, I thought I knew almost everything about what college had to offer: fun memories, bad professors, hilarious experiences, and the hell of final exams. However, I never knew that college could offer me one of the most amazing things: the friend and role model that I found in you.

It has always seemed that resident assistant's had this huge persona surrounding them. They were portrayed as people to avoid, that yelled at you when you were down, and always waited for you to slip up. I can't count the amount of stories I have heard floating around about how peoples RA's have "ruined their life." As a result, I never expected that I would become so close with you. Quite honestly, I thought that living three doors down from you was going to hinder any chance I had at having fun. All I have to say is, I don't think I've ever been so happy to be proven wrong in my entire life.

In a way, you were the first friend that each of us made here at school. You decorated the floor for our arrival, wrote individual welcome notes, and always had a radiant smile to share with each one of us. In fact, a lot of my first conversations with floor mates involved some variation of the question, "So what do you think about the RA?" The answer was always the same: I love her.

I guess it is easier for some people to abandon their preconceived notions, but my stubborn mind gave me no such choice. I truly could not believe that you were as incredible as you seemed. Slowly, however, using your sass and empathetic heart you managed to chip away at my rough exterior and make me into the RA-lover that I am today.

Now, it is absolutely inconceivable to me that five months ago I did not know who you were and that we were not friends. I can't imagine not pulling senseless pranks, hearing you poke fun at me, or stopping by your room on my way to class. It has become second nature and something that, despite what I say, is a happy part of every day.

Everyone claims to have the best RA, whether they mean it or not. Well, I'll tell them they are wrong until the day I die, because I genuinely believe I hit the jackpot when I was placed with you on floor 17. Freshman year can be a tough adjustment and I feel blessed that I had you by my side. I have never met a more considerate, helpful, caring, beautiful, accepting, and strong individual and I know no matter where life takes you that you will succeed. I only hope you will remember the resident who tortured you mercilessly when you're out taking over the world.

I hope this gave you a little insight into how special you are and how much all of floor 17, and especially I, will miss you. You made this place our home and there is nothing I can ever do to repay you. I love you eternally and will miss you endlessly.

Your Pain in the Ass Resident


P.S There it is...

Report this Content
This article has not been reviewed by Odyssey HQ and solely reflects the ideas and opinions of the creator.
the beatles
Wikipedia Commons

For as long as I can remember, I have been listening to The Beatles. Every year, my mom would appropriately blast “Birthday” on anyone’s birthday. I knew all of the words to “Back In The U.S.S.R” by the time I was 5 (Even though I had no idea what or where the U.S.S.R was). I grew up with John, Paul, George, and Ringo instead Justin, JC, Joey, Chris and Lance (I had to google N*SYNC to remember their names). The highlight of my short life was Paul McCartney in concert twice. I’m not someone to “fangirl” but those days I fangirled hard. The music of The Beatles has gotten me through everything. Their songs have brought me more joy, peace, and comfort. I can listen to them in any situation and find what I need. Here are the best lyrics from The Beatles for every and any occasion.

Keep Reading...Show less
Being Invisible The Best Super Power

The best superpower ever? Being invisible of course. Imagine just being able to go from seen to unseen on a dime. Who wouldn't want to have the opportunity to be invisible? Superman and Batman have nothing on being invisible with their superhero abilities. Here are some things that you could do while being invisible, because being invisible can benefit your social life too.

Keep Reading...Show less
Featured

19 Lessons I'll Never Forget from Growing Up In a Small Town

There have been many lessons learned.

71242
houses under green sky
Photo by Alev Takil on Unsplash

Small towns certainly have their pros and cons. Many people who grow up in small towns find themselves counting the days until they get to escape their roots and plant new ones in bigger, "better" places. And that's fine. I'd be lying if I said I hadn't thought those same thoughts before too. We all have, but they say it's important to remember where you came from. When I think about where I come from, I can't help having an overwhelming feeling of gratitude for my roots. Being from a small town has taught me so many important lessons that I will carry with me for the rest of my life.

Keep Reading...Show less
​a woman sitting at a table having a coffee
nappy.co

I can't say "thank you" enough to express how grateful I am for you coming into my life. You have made such a huge impact on my life. I would not be the person I am today without you and I know that you will keep inspiring me to become an even better version of myself.

Keep Reading...Show less
Student Life

Waitlisted for a College Class? Here's What to Do!

Dealing with the inevitable realities of college life.

133358
college students waiting in a long line in the hallway
StableDiffusion

Course registration at college can be a big hassle and is almost never talked about. Classes you want to take fill up before you get a chance to register. You might change your mind about a class you want to take and must struggle to find another class to fit in the same time period. You also have to make sure no classes clash by time. Like I said, it's a big hassle.

This semester, I was waitlisted for two classes. Most people in this situation, especially first years, freak out because they don't know what to do. Here is what you should do when this happens.

Keep Reading...Show less

Subscribe to Our Newsletter

Facebook Comments