There is no comparison to the relationship that a little girl has with her father. I always have been and always will be my dad’s biggest fan. However, I feel like there are quite a few times when his love, compassion, effort, and sacrifices go, not unnoticed, but without a “thank you”. I know this isn't anywhere near all the thanks a father deserves but these are just a few:
1. Thank you for knowing me better than myself.
My dad has always had a knack for knowing what I’m thinking before I even do. I don’t have to say a single word and my dad will know if I need to talk or just a hug to know he’s there. Sometimes it bit preteen/teenage me in the butt because if I ever tried to lie, he could see right through the façade.
2. Thank you for never judging me.
I cannot think of an instance when I genuinely felt like my dad was judging me. I have always been able to openly talk to my dad about what’s going on in my life and he has never failed to give me an objective but yet, an understanding viewpoint.
3. Thank you for loving me when I didn’t love myself.
Like a lot of other people at this age, I found it very difficult to figure out who I was and be okay with that. There are times when I was constantly comparing myself to others and my dad always knew how to turn that around. When I felt broken, insecure, unworthy, whatever it may have been, he made me feel loved, confident, and beautiful. He loved me when I couldn’t love myself and inevitably, helped me to do just that.
4. Thank you for all the sacrifices you have made for me.
Although I do not know exactly all of the sacrifices you have made for me and our small little family, it doesn’t mean I don’t know they were made. You are an exceptional father and person and I couldn’t thank you enough for that.
5. Thank you for being there since day one.
Thank you for being my number one fan. I know no matter how chaotic, stressful, or wrong things in my life may go, I know you have my back. I never doubt the future or get nervous about what's going to happen because I know you're right behind me cheering me on.
Words can't even begin to explain the love, admiration, and appreciation I have for you, Dad. But I hope this helps explain it at least a little bit. I'll always be your little girl.
