Tattoos: a form of self-expression for many, and a way to express one's individuality. While some maybe more intricate than others, if done well, they can still be a beautiful piece of work that will literally last forever. If you just thought you just got the tattoo…you’re wrong. Along with the tattoo comes all of the questions, judgements and stares for having one. So for those who are not aware, here are some things you shouldn’t say or ask when addressing someone’s tattoo!
1. Did it hurt?
If you are not making the same expression Judge Judy is in the GIF above then you have not been asked this question enough. Being stabbed with a needle repetitively for hours at a time isn't the best feeling in the world. YES, IT HURT!
2. What do your parents think of your tattoo?
My parents think that I am an adult who is capable of making my own decisions and spending my money the way I want to. But if you must know, they love it.
3. Don't you worry about not getting a job?
It's 2016...most employers (depending on what job you are going after) have become more lenient and accepting to those with tattoos. 45 million Americans have tattoos. Worse comes to worse, I won't have my sleeves rolled up when I walk into the interview so that I can cover my tattoo.
4. "I think you'd look better without them" or "Well, I don't think it was a good idea"
If you don't like my tattoo....that sucks for you, bud, because I, as well as the millions of others who have tattoos, didn't get them to satisfy your needs. I got my tattoo because I wanted it and because it is aesthetically pleasing to me. Which is all I care about. *hair flip*
5. Can I touch it?
Tattoo or not, skin feels like skin! Why would you want to touch mine because I have something that you don't?
Although these are only a few questions I have been asked since getting my tattoo, best believe there are plenty more annoying, weird and straight up stupid questions people have asked. If you've thought of asking someone with a tattoo these types of questions...don't! Remember that tattoos are extremely unique and personal to someone, depending on the tattoo. Respect their decision, take a look, then move on with your day.
