The popular phrase "kind people are my kinda people" is one of my favorites. Being kind is not hard, but knowing exactly how to be kind can be tricky for some when it comes to talking to a person with a disability. People with a disability are just that, people. They want to be addressed as a person, not as a disability.
So, here are a few basic tips...
1.Person-first Language.
Always put the person before the disability, meaning instead of referring to someone as, for example, "autistic" try, "He/she has autism."
2. Don't talk "around" their disability.
Never ignore that a person has a disability. That is a very real part of their life and they have learned to embrace it.
3. Hands off!
OK, this isn't necessarily about talking to a person with a disability but this is important. People who use wheelchairs, canes, or any other adaptive equipment view these as an extension of their body. Never grab, lean on, or use their equipment without their permission.
4. Forget the baby talk
Wow, I shouldn't even have to say this but please, address the person according to their age.
These are just a few ways to be sensitive to a person with a disability. Most don't want your sympathy and they definitely do not want your hurtful comments, so treat them how you would want to be treated.
Oh, here's one more piece of free advise, removing the "R" word from your vocabulary is a MUST!
