Once you reach a certain age, Christmas is not the same anymore. I think after you get a taste of the real world you realize that Christmas is more about the season and everything that goes into it, not just Christmas itself and less about the presents under the tree. Being in college also changes your views on the holiday season because truthfully I could unwrap a new bottle of shampoo on Christmas morning and treat it like a brand new iPhone. After I reached about 14 I started to feel guilty for receiving so many gifts on Christmas and since I have not treated the holiday the same. A lot of people like receiving gifts and new things because it excites them, as new things will fill a void for a certain amount of time. However, you will recognize a new sign of maturity and sense of understanding when you would rather be giving the gifts- not receiving.

Yes I know, we are all selfish to a certain extent, myself included. I just think consumerism and the need to constantly have the "new" or "better" is ruining our institutions, especially family. Tangible items are just that- tangible. Other than material items you can pick up at the store, there are plenty of gifts you can give those who love you. Whether it is spending quality time with a relative you do not see often or helping your mom out in the kitchen, these thoughtful gifts go a long way and never expire. When the "newest" toy is not the newest anymore it is the memories and experiences you have that you will remember the most.

This holiday season I hope you open your eyes and hearts to those struggling to even make it to Christmas. I realize seeing a homeless person while on your way to pick out your grandma's gift might not be the ideal shopping trip, but it is the cold hard reality of life. Many are struggling to stay warm this cold December, forget about buying gifts for their family members. When in the giving spirit, keep in mind those begging for change or even those suffering overseas in Aleppo and donate.

Christmas is meant to be a fun and warm holiday, and I do not mean to bring people down. I just want everyone to open their eyes at how selfish we can be and make a change. Christmas is more than items that will keep us satisfied until next year, and so are we. Christmas is about finding it in your heart to give to those around us. So somewhere between baking cookies and watching elf, I hope you take a minute to appreciate everything around you and remember those who are less fortunate.