I advocate gender equality to the fullest extent. I would never tell someone what to do with their body. However, when it comes to someone else's family, my opinion is completely different. In college, I have heard a lot of girls talking about going on "seeking arrangements" dates. Some girls were serious and others were joking, but to me, that is no laughing matter.
"Broke college kid" probably rings in your ears. Maybe you are jealous that you have carried the same backpack since ninth grade while other girls carry Louis Vuitton bags. Some days you feel like you deserve so much, you might feel as though things should be handed to you.
Escorting, sugaring, and even getting someone to Venmo you money seems like an easy way to get what you want. A few hours with a gross, rich guy and you can treat yourself, right? Wrong. This is morally corrupt. Most of the men on these websites are MARRIED. By partaking in this, you're messing with someone's marriage. Imagine being the wife of a man on a business trip who is alone. Picture yourself frantic when you find out he has been talking with someone young enough to be his daughter. All that just for a quick buck.
In my humble opinion, if you partake in these behaviors, you are not pro-woman at all. You can argue "my body, my choice," all you want. At the end of the day though, you made the choice to interfere with someone's marriage. You're not "young and crazy" for doing this, you are just desperate and corrupt.
The moral of the story is to have some damn morals. If you want something, work for it. Never accept a handout based on your anatomy. There is nothing glamorous about being the other woman in any situation.
