It’s that time of year again. There’s a fresh batch of high school graduates enjoying their final months before starting a new chapter of their life. Maybe some of you have it all planned out, assuming you’re prepared for anything that comes your way. Others are just along for the ride. I, for one, thought I knew it all.
Let me tell you, I most definitely did not. I am happy to say, though, that I have learned from my experiences, and am much better equipped with the knowledge of what is or isn’t going to help on the path to success.
1. Don't- Don’t ever think you’re prepared for any given situation. Life can change in an instant, leaving you dazed and confused. Do- Set goals and know what you want to accomplish. That way, when life throws you curveballs, you can adapt and remember to focus more on your goals than following a specific plan.
2. Don't- Jumping into a major/minor right off the bat isn’t for everyone. Don’t think you need to declare something just to fit in or meet expectations! Do- If you need to, try experimenting a little so you can find out your skills and interests. Not everyone has it figured out before college. You very well may have some hidden talent somewhere! Figure out what is right for you. Not your parents, your friends, or your cat.
3. Don't- You shouldn’t overload yourself with work and unrealistic short-term aspirations. There’s nothing wrong with aiming high, but you need to know your limits. Do- Work hard, but take time to enjoy yourself so that you don’t get overwhelmed.
4. Don't- On the other hand, it can be easy to let your social life get out of control. Trust me, it’s all fun and games…until your grades get hurt.Do- Follow a schedule. Plan your day so that you have time for the necessary things. Make sure you get your work done before you play. Procrastination is too dangerous.
5. Don't- I know most people want to live somewhere just because their friends will be there or it’s a social environment. You cannot base your housing decision on a social frame. It isn’t the best foundation as far as priorities and time management and distractions. Do- Complete extensive research. If you have options when it comes to housing, make sure you look into all aspects that can affect you. Roommates, location, amenities, etc. You can never be too careful, especially with your living arrangements.
6. Don't- Please, do not assume that just because you’re in college, and "everybody is doing it,” you need to be in a serious relationship. If you’re not ready, don’t push it! Do- Take the time to get to know people. Make friends! Dating just for fun is a great way to strengthen friendships and give you a better idea of what you want and need, and if the time comes, it’s a great segue into something more long-term.
7. Don't- There are a lot of people out there that care about you and that have helped you along the way. Don’t be an ingrate. Do-Show your appreciation to those on and off-campus that make it possible for you to keep doing amazing things! Remind them (and yourself) that you can’t do it all on your own, and that you are grateful for their support. Let’s be honest, nobody ever gets anywhere relying solely on their own merits.
8. Don't-Nobody likes a killjoy. We all have moments where we feel like nothing is going right and it’s easy to take that out on everyone else. Don’t be that loser. Do- Have fun! You’re still young! Find ways to make each semester unforgettable and one to be looked back on with pride! Get involved, but only take on what you can handle. Stress is a huge waste of energy and typically slows productivity as well.
College, and just about anything else in life, is what you make of it. So make it great! This definitely doesn’t just apply to the freshmen, as these things can be continually implemented for further success and happiness. Ultimately, you should want to be happy.
So put your best foot forward! You believe in you! You certainly should
