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5 Struggles Every Oldest Sibling Has

Life isn't always the easiest when you're the oldest.

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5 Struggles Every Oldest Sibling Has
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In case you missed everyone's Instagram story last Tuesday, it was National Siblings Day. This was a day to appreciate your older/younger brothers and sisters and to call them out for being great. While siblings are amazing, being the oldest sibling definitely has its struggles and perks.

1. You're always having to set the example for them.

Since you are the oldest child, you are expected to set a perfect example to your younger siblings. This is a hard one because you're also growing up and you'll still make mistakes.

2. Having stricter rules growing up.

Of course since you were the first child, your parents kept you on a tighter leash than your younger brothers/sisters. That being said, your siblings can get away with things you'd never imagine ever getting away with at their age.

3. Being the guinea pig child.

You're the first one to hit all the major milestones. From driving to graduation, your parents are also going through the milestone with you.

4. Stolen clothing.

To my little sister, my closet is her closet.

The perks of being the oldest:

1. You have the most baby photos.

Being the first born means your parents documented everything you did. You probably have albums full of just your baby pictures.

2. You get to watch your baby brother/sister grow up right before your eyes.

It may make you feel a bit old, but it's pretty amazing to watch them grow up and begin to make their impact in the world.

3. You get to pass on your wisdom.

From which classes to take to helping out your sibling with an issue, they look to you for support.

4. Built in best friends.

Regardless of the age difference, there is that sibling bond that no one can ever take away.

5. You're the favorite child

After all, you are your parent's first kid!

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