Have you ever asked yourself, who am I? What defines me? And most importantly what makes me happy?
Thoughts flash in my head like lighting, some days I lose sleep because of thinking too hard but I still wake up, smile, and encourage myself to keep moving. You know why? Because we have to be our own cheer leader in this cold world. "Bundle up! its a cold world" *DJ Khaled voice*.
The quicker we learn to forgive and find inner peace with ourselves, It won't matter who did what to you because you have forgiven yourself for believing in them, you have loved yourself enough that no outside force that is negative will be internalized. That is real happiness! Find it, and hold on tight.
Remember, A plant will still produce blooming flowers after being stepped on; the same way, you will recover and rise again, bloom again.
In the midst of all this mess, find happiness. Happiness is inner peace and forgiveness.