Growing up, I learned to be nice to everybody. As long as you respect and are kind to all people, they should give you the same courtesies. However, one thing my kindergarten teacher didn't warn me about was how judgmental my fellow peers can be.

I'd like to consider myself a very friendly person. I'm always open to meeting new people and making new friends. However, it always seems that every time other people see that we are different, they judge me and my decisions.

It always seems like other people criticize me for voicing my opinions when they're different than their own.

They act like my choices aren't as good as theirs because I don't agree with them.

Well, NEWS FLASH:

Having different friends is good!

Not liking the same food is good.

Not liking to do the same things is good!

Being different is good.

We are all unique in our own ways and having different opinions than the person next to you is not only normal, but it adds much-needed diversity. Not agreeing with people all the time is life. Don't make other people feel bad about themselves because of different views that they are rightfully allowed to have.

Most importantly, don't judge people! You don't know their history, background, or past experiences until you take the time to get to know them.

No one likes to feel like they aren't accepted or are being ridiculed for believing in what they want and making their own choices. The easiest solution is to respect everyone, and they will respect you.

Being different is amazing. So stop making me think otherwise.