Stereotypes, good and bad, constantly influence our lives and thoughts without us even realizing it. I read a paragraph in my communication book that really made me think. It involved a young boy and his father getting into a horrible car crash. The father died instantly, and the boy was taken to the hospital for emergency surgery. The surgeon walked into the operating room and claimed, “I cannot be in charge, for this is my son.” This little story confused many. How could this be the surgeon’s son when the father died on impact? Well, here is your answer: the boy has a mother too. Most immediately assume the surgeon to be a male and did not even take his mom into perspective. That being said, gender roles are still a huge component of our society. It is 2017, and something needs to change.
I know you have read many feminist posts and pieces about how women can do anything men can do. After all, how do you think the term “meninist” came to be? People are tired of hearing about it, but that doesn’t mean we need to keep our voices down. Especially after recent events, Women’s Marches took place all over the country on January 21st, and I thought it was one of the most awesome things. If anyone ever makes you feel inferior and devalues your worth, then please do not stay quiet. Every person has the right to be heard.
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We should have the same opportunities as men do within the work force. A surgeon should be a gender neutral term, but it isn’t. Neither is doctor. And neither is policeMAN. In reference to my first paragraph, people automatically give these jobs a masculine aura. It just makes me sad that we are still considered the weaker and more vulnerable sex. Even in regards to stature, men are more dominating. I want my opinions to be taken seriously, but sometimes my size can hinder that. Even when I do get angry, people mainly boys think that I’m being “crazy” because that’s how all girls are right?
Therefore, be crazy. Shout your opinions. If you aren’t being treated right, do not be afraid to put him in his place. Be respectful, but be strong. You do not owe anyone anything, but you deserve everything if you work for it. Times are changing, and I’m unsure of what the future may hold. Just be confident in yourself and you’ll find that great things will come your way. Maybe someday, the story about the car crash won’t be so confusing.
