Stop Saying Sorry
Start writing a post
Student Life

Stop Saying Sorry

I don't mean to be rude buttttt I don't think I did anything wrong

21
Stop Saying Sorry
Pinterest

To be clear, I am a person that used to apologize a lot. Did I need to squeeze past you in the store? Sorry. Oh, I started talking when you were trying to? My condolences. I didn't hold the door for you? Terribly sorry again. But one day I was thinking, and why was it on me every time something I did inconvenienced someone else? I realized that there were plenty of times where people had done the same thing to me and had never once muttered the S-word. Those people, I told myself, were b*tches.

But I thought about it more and more, and I realized that this shouldn't make them rude people. They weren't doing these things on purpose, it was just something they needed so that they could get through their day. Why should they apologize when it wasn't their intent to be rude? They shouldn't! No one should. So I decided to take my advice.

It seems like females are always more likely to apologize for their actions. We do it every day! When we need to scoot past someone on the bus, when we mess up our order at the coffee shop, hell, we even apologize when we walk up to the water fountain at the same time as someone else. The other person says, "Go ahead," and we sheepishly reply, "Oh thank you! Sorry..."

I don't mean to sound like a rude person, but the things that we're apologizing for happen all the time. If someone is bothered by the fact that you actually need to interact with them, they should probably stay home. We are social beings, and accidental interactions are a normal thing. Don't be sorry for them because you never know who you might meet by bumping into someone on the bus.

People need to stop asking for forgiveness for simple things. Unless you've run someone over with your bike, or spilled your hot coffee on the person in front of you, I honestly don't think an apology is needed.


Report this Content
This article has not been reviewed by Odyssey HQ and solely reflects the ideas and opinions of the creator.
the beatles
Wikipedia Commons

For as long as I can remember, I have been listening to The Beatles. Every year, my mom would appropriately blast “Birthday” on anyone’s birthday. I knew all of the words to “Back In The U.S.S.R” by the time I was 5 (Even though I had no idea what or where the U.S.S.R was). I grew up with John, Paul, George, and Ringo instead Justin, JC, Joey, Chris and Lance (I had to google N*SYNC to remember their names). The highlight of my short life was Paul McCartney in concert twice. I’m not someone to “fangirl” but those days I fangirled hard. The music of The Beatles has gotten me through everything. Their songs have brought me more joy, peace, and comfort. I can listen to them in any situation and find what I need. Here are the best lyrics from The Beatles for every and any occasion.

Keep Reading...Show less
Being Invisible The Best Super Power

The best superpower ever? Being invisible of course. Imagine just being able to go from seen to unseen on a dime. Who wouldn't want to have the opportunity to be invisible? Superman and Batman have nothing on being invisible with their superhero abilities. Here are some things that you could do while being invisible, because being invisible can benefit your social life too.

Keep Reading...Show less
Featured

19 Lessons I'll Never Forget from Growing Up In a Small Town

There have been many lessons learned.

70917
houses under green sky
Photo by Alev Takil on Unsplash

Small towns certainly have their pros and cons. Many people who grow up in small towns find themselves counting the days until they get to escape their roots and plant new ones in bigger, "better" places. And that's fine. I'd be lying if I said I hadn't thought those same thoughts before too. We all have, but they say it's important to remember where you came from. When I think about where I come from, I can't help having an overwhelming feeling of gratitude for my roots. Being from a small town has taught me so many important lessons that I will carry with me for the rest of my life.

Keep Reading...Show less
​a woman sitting at a table having a coffee
nappy.co

I can't say "thank you" enough to express how grateful I am for you coming into my life. You have made such a huge impact on my life. I would not be the person I am today without you and I know that you will keep inspiring me to become an even better version of myself.

Keep Reading...Show less
Student Life

Waitlisted for a College Class? Here's What to Do!

Dealing with the inevitable realities of college life.

132495
college students waiting in a long line in the hallway
StableDiffusion

Course registration at college can be a big hassle and is almost never talked about. Classes you want to take fill up before you get a chance to register. You might change your mind about a class you want to take and must struggle to find another class to fit in the same time period. You also have to make sure no classes clash by time. Like I said, it's a big hassle.

This semester, I was waitlisted for two classes. Most people in this situation, especially first years, freak out because they don't know what to do. Here is what you should do when this happens.

Keep Reading...Show less

Subscribe to Our Newsletter

Facebook Comments