Stop College Shaming
Start writing a post
Student Life

Stop College Shaming

You don't need to go to a million-dollar university to succeed.

277
Stop College Shaming
Madison Brown

Everyone has heard about major shaming before. "Oh, English majors can't get a real job," or "What are you going to do with an art degree?" are some common examples of major shaming you might hear as a college student, but I'm here to talk about a different type of shaming: college shaming.

See, I'm a born and raised Texan, and I decided to go to a tiny college in a tiny town in Mississippi. I chose my school because it offered a great program for my major, as well as the largest scholarship offer of any of the schools I applied to and a Christian environment (something I preferred in a school). But I am not here to defend my school to you.

Since deciding to go to school in Mississippi, and especially since coming back to Texas for the summer, I often hear comments like "Why would you go to school in Mississippi?" or "Mississippi College? I've never even heard of it. Why didn't you choose X school in Texas?" Now, most of these comments are made in jest, but some are not. People judge me because of my choice in school.

And this isn't just an MC problem. Every day, people are judged for attending a community college for two years or for going to a public university instead of a private one. Why do we judge people based on their college choice? Every single person who is attending college is (or should be) actively seeking to better him or herself. They are sacrificing time and money to further their education so they can be a more valuable member of society. Often, people choose to attend a school based on either their aptitude or their financial situation; they do what is the best option for them.

It is not our place to judge someone for their choice. It is not your right to think that you are smarter than someone else simply because you go to what you consider a "better university." I was being sought out by multiple Ivy League universities, as well as other top schools, but still chose to go to Mississippi College because I felt like that was where God wanted me and where I could thrive the most.

Let people live their lives; let people seek self-improvement without fear of judgment. Here's a thought: maybe if our judgment didn't force people to feel like they need to attend a fancy private university, student debt wouldn't be such a rampant national problem. As long as people are doing their best to learn, let them, and keep your opinions out of it.

Report this Content
This article has not been reviewed by Odyssey HQ and solely reflects the ideas and opinions of the creator.
the beatles
Wikipedia Commons

For as long as I can remember, I have been listening to The Beatles. Every year, my mom would appropriately blast “Birthday” on anyone’s birthday. I knew all of the words to “Back In The U.S.S.R” by the time I was 5 (Even though I had no idea what or where the U.S.S.R was). I grew up with John, Paul, George, and Ringo instead Justin, JC, Joey, Chris and Lance (I had to google N*SYNC to remember their names). The highlight of my short life was Paul McCartney in concert twice. I’m not someone to “fangirl” but those days I fangirled hard. The music of The Beatles has gotten me through everything. Their songs have brought me more joy, peace, and comfort. I can listen to them in any situation and find what I need. Here are the best lyrics from The Beatles for every and any occasion.

Keep Reading...Show less
Being Invisible The Best Super Power

The best superpower ever? Being invisible of course. Imagine just being able to go from seen to unseen on a dime. Who wouldn't want to have the opportunity to be invisible? Superman and Batman have nothing on being invisible with their superhero abilities. Here are some things that you could do while being invisible, because being invisible can benefit your social life too.

Keep Reading...Show less
Featured

19 Lessons I'll Never Forget from Growing Up In a Small Town

There have been many lessons learned.

70723
houses under green sky
Photo by Alev Takil on Unsplash

Small towns certainly have their pros and cons. Many people who grow up in small towns find themselves counting the days until they get to escape their roots and plant new ones in bigger, "better" places. And that's fine. I'd be lying if I said I hadn't thought those same thoughts before too. We all have, but they say it's important to remember where you came from. When I think about where I come from, I can't help having an overwhelming feeling of gratitude for my roots. Being from a small town has taught me so many important lessons that I will carry with me for the rest of my life.

Keep Reading...Show less
​a woman sitting at a table having a coffee
nappy.co

I can't say "thank you" enough to express how grateful I am for you coming into my life. You have made such a huge impact on my life. I would not be the person I am today without you and I know that you will keep inspiring me to become an even better version of myself.

Keep Reading...Show less
Student Life

Waitlisted for a College Class? Here's What to Do!

Dealing with the inevitable realities of college life.

132344
college students waiting in a long line in the hallway
StableDiffusion

Course registration at college can be a big hassle and is almost never talked about. Classes you want to take fill up before you get a chance to register. You might change your mind about a class you want to take and must struggle to find another class to fit in the same time period. You also have to make sure no classes clash by time. Like I said, it's a big hassle.

This semester, I was waitlisted for two classes. Most people in this situation, especially first years, freak out because they don't know what to do. Here is what you should do when this happens.

Keep Reading...Show less

Subscribe to Our Newsletter

Facebook Comments