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Stop Calling Me Boring Because I Have A Boyfriend

I have changed for the better, leave me alone.

Gina Lombardo

Feb 15, 2017

Rutgers University

Stop Calling Me Boring Because I Have A Boyfriend

Gina Lombardo

Okay, I get it I am different now that I have a boyfriend, but am I boring? Um no.

Things have changed a lot for me and I need everyone to respect that. Yes, I don't go out as much now that I have a boyfriend, but is that a bad thing? I really don't think so. You may take me having a boyfriend as me going out less and being less fun for you, but personally I think I am a better person.

Of course, I have always been a hard worker and have always had dreams and goals, but since I have had a boyfriend I have been more focused than ever on those goals. He inspires me and encourages me. When I put myself down he lifts me back up and reassures me. Because of him I have been filled with more light and love. Because of him I have been happier and personally, I believe when you're happier you're healthier!

Do I not go out as often because my boyfriend tells me I can't? Hell no. I stay in because I want to and thats what I want to be doing. My boyfriend is just that my boyfriend, not my parent so he does not tell me what to do. So please stop trying to act like he is changing me into a bad person because in reality, I am as happy as I have ever been.

So while I'm at home just relaxing doing my thing please remember that it's not because I have a boyfriend or because I'm "no fun," it's because I choose to.

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