There are things you never forget, people you never forget, and memories you never forget. As a small child, I lost one of the people I looked up to the most. He was my role model. He was my friend. He was my grandfather. He was my Papa. Some may think I don't remember him because I was so little when he passed, but I beg to differ. I have the fondest memories of him. I would visit him, and he would light up my whole world. He was a good man, and that's how I choose to remember him. Around six years ago, I wrote this poem honoring him:
I've always tried
not to think about it,
try to get it out of my mind,
but nothing has changed
except the fact is that
I still miss you
despite what happened that day.
I still miss how you gave me candies
every time I came to visit you,
or the way you used to smell.
Thinking of it now makes me
want to cry because you're out
of my life now, everyone's life.
I know I shouldn't be sad because
you're in a better place now,
but I just can't help it.
Why couldn't the doctors have
done more to keep you alive?
Nobody really understands
how bad it hurts to have someone
like you taken away from them.
It seems like everyone is trying
to replace you, but I just
can't seem to stop
thinking
about the face that you're
a person that could never
be replaced. It tears me apart
to see people trying to replace you when
in reality I can still feel you around me.
I know you still care.
I miss you,
your smell,
everything about you.
But thank God,
you're in a better
place now.
I know. I know. It's a super amateur poem. However, to this day it reminds me of him and how much I do still miss him. He may be gone, but he'll live forever in my poem and in my heart.
I still miss you, Papa.