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My Soulmate Will Be The Man I Marry, But I Already Found My Soul Friend

A soul friend is someone that has the "same interests, beliefs, sense of humor, and values" as you do.

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Lacee Worthington

Urban Dictionary defines "soulmate" as the one person who knows you better than anyone else. It's someone who inspires you to be a better person. It's the one person who knows you and accepts you as you are and believes in you. No matter what happens, you'll always love them.

Most people believe they have a soulmate. Others don't. I know that I will find my soulmate in a future husband one day.

However, I have already found something different in my best friend, Tiffany.

She is my soul friend.

You can have a soul friend that has the "same interests, beliefs, sense of humor, and values."

There are a few ways to know your soul friend when you find them, I found out on HuffPost and Personal Tao. I want to show you how Tiffany is my soul friend.

The article on HuffPost states that a soulmate is "someone you have been comfortable with since day one" and "you may have known each other for years, but you suddenly find yourselves ready for love at the same time."

Tiffany and I have gone to the same church since we were kids. We have always been friends but one day we just mutually decided to become close friends.

Dr. Carmen Harra was quoted, telling HuffPost that "One may finish the other's sentences, they may pick up the phone to call each other simultaneously, or feel like they simply can't be without their partner" — partner in crime for me.

This past weekend was the first weekend in awhile that Tiffany and I didn't hang out. And we both texted each other the other night saying how we felt lost because it was weird not hanging out.

Personal Tao says that a soulmate is a person that inspires you to improve yourself. So, because of Tiffany I now do my nails more frequently than I used to. I used to be the girl that only did her toenails when the summer started and only did her fingernails when something eventful happened. Now, I get my nails done almost bi-weekly… Although, I am not sure on the money-side if this improves my life. (ha!)

I just got my nails done for the first time in forever. My Personal Photo

But, Tiffany also has made me more social in a way. I didn't hang out every weekend like I do now before we became close.

Logan, Tiffany, and I going to Taco Bell.

Her family has also pretty much adopted me into their family. Her sister hugs me every time she sees me and asks when I am coming over. Her dad gives me fatherly advice. Her mom gives me life advice. They also don't hardly bat an eye when I show up Sunday after church for lunch. It's a tradition. It's family.

Tiffany's sister, Hannah, and I hanging out being crazy on Snapchat.

A soul friend is someone that every person needs. Someone you can tell anything to and they won't judge you. Someone that you can be brutally honest with and you know that they know you are doing it out of love. Someone you can have fun with but also be serious with.

Do you have a soul friend?

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