I’m that college girl who enjoys wearing oversized shirts with shorts. Glitter excites me, and watching sorority recruitment videos is my idea of a fun time. I’m that girl who refers to her sorority big as “BIIGGGGIEEEE” in all social situations. I’m that girl who giggles uncontrollably in awkward situations, and I’m that girl who is directionally challenged. I listen to catchy upbeat songs, and wear my letters honorably. I’m proud to be “that girl”, because being “that girl” means so much more than a simple stereotype.

Being in a sorority means being comfortable

I wear oversized shirts and shorts, because I want to, not because it’s a sorority thing. Being in a sorority is about being yourself. You’re able to branch out and find people who accept you. You’re able to be your fun-loving self while sporting a messy bun and sweats. Your sisters love you anyways, and that’s what matters.

Being in a sorority means excitement

You see glitter and associate it with Bid Day. You watch recruitment videos and can’t wait to welcome new sisters. You learn to love the little things, like receiving a new pin or new keychain. Being in a sorority lets you be excited. You get excited for yourself, for your sisters, for your chapter, and for other houses, and that’s a great feeling.

Being in a sorority means learning

Being in a sorority has taught me that being myself is a good thing, always, and that you can learn more outside of class, sometimes, than in it. I have learned that getting to the third floor of my house is like going up the “Hogwarts Staircase” in Harry Potter. I’ve learned that sometimes it’s better to listen than always talk. I’ve learned to find the similarities in someone I think is the opposite of myself, and I’ve learned that I’m always “wearing my letters”.

Being in a sorority means involvement

You are able to make a difference. You can volunteer through your chapter, or you can get encouraged to volunteer outside of your chapter. There is always going to be someone ready to give you that push you need. Being in a sorority is about your philanthropy, and about helping other philanthropies in the Greek Community. You make friends with more people than just your “sisters”, and always have a reason to stop by your house.

Being in a sorority means family

I have two biological sisters of my own, but there is no feeling quite like getting 172 more all at once. I am blessed that my big is one of my best friends, and that I can be myself with any of my sisters. Being in a sorority is about sisterhood. You learn to love your sisters, and to be there for them. You experience some of the best years of your life with these girls, and couldn’t be luckier to have found such an amazing second family.