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When 'Grey's Anatomy' Explains Your Friendship

She's my person.

Amber Messick
May 29, 2016
Oglethorpe University
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When 'Grey's Anatomy' Explains Your Friendship

Just to start this article off for you guys she is like my sister, we have known each other for 15 years. We met on my fifth birthday (yes my actual birthday) and have been friends ever since. I mean nothing has separated us. So I want to say a little something to the guy aka the fiancé that has and is making her the happiest I have ever seen her.

1. We are each other's person

We will always turn to each other, and sometimes I will know her better than you. It might seem intimidating and frustrating at times, but don't worry she trust you with her her heart, she trust you with forever, which is major for Cayla.

2. You are her Derek

Thank you for being the love of her life. Thank you for showing her how amazing she is. Sometimes she may doubt herself and I'm not always around to show her that she is absolutely amazing.

3. Yes, you will be able to attest to our friendship.

At some point, you will be able to point out the annoying friendship things we do. You might even have to deal with me coming over and crashing at your place. Ooops I have already done that. Thanks for letting me crash at your place a while back.

4. A code exists

When you have been together for 15 years, there is just an understood code. One that means driving 2 ½ hours one way even if we don’t get to see each other for a full 24 hours. It means that on off days, one of us will probably ruin your plans for spending time with her by yourself.

Thank you for enduring our friendship. Thank you for making her happy and putting a ring on her finger. I am so thankful that you are in her life. Also, I appreciate you including me on your special engagement day. You have no idea how much that meant to me. I can’t wait for you guys to tie the knot and maybe have adorable babies (I mean I would like a niece in say about five years).

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1. You don't have to feel guilty about flirting with customers for tips (or just for shits and giggles).

2. You can be obnoxiously flirtatious with anyone you want. You are free to be that girl that flirts with everybody and makes 'em all smile (it's especially fun when the guy is as cute as Collin Jost). No shame.

3. Making random men nervous with your superior beauty and intense eye contact just for the hell of it is really amusing and empowering.

4. No one gives two poops if ya legs are hairy (your man shouldn't either but *Kermit the Frog meme* That's none of my business)

5. The toilet seat will remain down.

6. There's more money to spend on yourself.

7. There's always this secret butterfly in your tummy that marvels at the possibility that when you go out this weekend you're gonna meet someone super handsome/wonderful/prince-like and have this moment of dazzling dalliance.

8. Nothing is that serious...you can take it all with a grain of salt...you don't owe anybody anything.

9. You can dance with anyone and everyone...or no one (Hello frat boi w/ glasses, I see you).

10. You don't have to fluff anyone's ego but your own.

11. Free drinks and dinners from single guys (It's not taking advantage if they're offering; a girl's gotta eat).

12. You have more time to learn how to love and improve yourself rather than constantly pouring your energy into another person.

13. You don't have to sacrifice your cheesy Jen Aniston rom-coms and Gilmore Girls for his Fast and Furious/other dumb action movie featuring blonde that is only in the movie to supply a relationship to the male lead and to make him look more masculine/empowered in juxtaposition (In other words, you don't have to deal with a guy being a crabby Patty while you watch your cute movies).

14. You can daydream about what your future husband may be doing right now (and not get stressed/guilty out because you're not picturing your current boyfriend that's crazy about you as your future husband).

15. There is more time to be spent with your girlfriends.

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