Just because the breakup is long gone and you are actually over the relationship, the process of healing from a broken heart is merely impossible. After so many heartbreaks in my life so far are not just from the guys I was with, it is from all the issues I have gone through, the losses, and the pain of watching someone you love get hurt too. Trying to love someone with a broken heart is something that I have experienced, but I am sorry for the guys who have experienced my broken heart.
Broken hearts are not just something that can be all healed up for good, no, there is damage to the emotions of the person. Once being broken hearted once, and then one after the other, takes a toll on the emotional balance of the person. This is why most people who have been damaged by this are hard to love; we tend to stray from the one, or become overly clingy to the other. The main thing that will happen is having a trust issue with the new person, and even always feeling like they are going to get dumped because that is what we are used to.This is something that most people do not understand about us.This is what makes us so hard to love someone because we do not know if the person is true to what they say.
Dealing with a person who has a broken heart is a rough thing to go through till the other person is finally able to feel open. Most people tell the ones with a broken heart to get over it, but the truth is, its harder said than done. When dating someone with a broken heart, you do not abandon them when they do not feel right or want to be alone; this will make them feel more of a heartbreak and not capable of love. But why do people not understand that? Yes, the person with the broken heart needs to help themselves, but the problem is that we need to feel like we have a reason and understand that people are actually there for us. Without the understanding of the new partner, friends, and family, it is just a feeling of heartbreak after heartbreak, then it comes to the feeling of being permit. With this the new partner needs to talk to them and further understand what is going on, and not just runaway or act like everything is okay.
