What happened to the days when people enjoyed the sunrise when they woke up instead of checking to see what notifications are on their phones?

What happened to the days when families deemed dinnertime discussions a sacred daily ritual?

What happened to the days when childhood memories were made at a park instead of on a computer?

What happened to the days when front doors did not have to remain locked because people trusted their neighbors?

What happened to the days when people did not try to change who you are and instead chose to accept your differences because it is what makes you unique from all others?

What happened to the days when men held doors open for women and expected nothing in return?

What happened to the days when calling family relatives was not a hassle, but a genuine interest?

What happened to the days when people brought a piece of cake over to someone’s house as a token of appreciation?

What happened to the days when you never gave up on someone or something because you knew that in the end it was worth the struggle?

What happened to the days when presidential candidates were modest, humble, and respectful toward all walks of life?

What happened to the days when veterans were given the appreciation they deserve for graciously serving our country without any mental reservation?

What happened to the days when putting others before yourself was a second-nature instinct?

What happened to the days when talking behind someone’s back was never a thought because they knew better?

What happened to the days when you had to work for something you wanted instead of it being given to you?

What happened to the days when people acted true to themselves and to other people because nothing could shatter your self-identity?

Society has changed. We have transitioned from a nation that was gracious for what they had to a nation that is spoiled. We have transitioned from a nation that was unified to a nation that is divided. We have changed.

This past year has made me realize that we have not only transitioned, but transitioned for the worst. People remain hostile toward one another and are selfish at heart. They are quick to judge and too quick to give up on something that appears difficult. People demand respect, but cannot give respect to others. People will lie to the faces of other people thinking that the person is oblivious to their lies. This is what creates division: people not being true to others because their toxic actions destroy relationships among other people.

Throughout this past year, I have met lying, ungrateful, spoiled, self-centered, toxic people who victimize themselves seeking sympathy from others while knowing that they are the ones who are the victimizers.

I sit in my house thinking how ridiculous it is to let people change who you are. Every person is unique and has the potential to make a large contribution towards society. Communicate with other people in order to resolve issues. If you don’t, nothing will ever be resolved.

We need to work together as a society if we want issues to be resolved. Hostility is not the answer and accepting society the way it is is pitiful.