When We Blame Society, We're Not Off The Hook | The Odyssey Online
Start writing a post
Health and Wellness

When We Blame Society, We're Not Off The Hook

Individuals have the power to change the world. So, let's do it.

25
When We Blame Society, We're Not Off The Hook
Word Press

Society says that women must be able to fit into size two pants, or they must rearrange their appearance. Society says we are not allowed to be who we want to be because it does not fit the regulated pattern followed by those before us. Society says that certain races empower others, when in reality shouldn't all lives matter? Society says that we are, "the land of the free," but we cannot express that right due to the excess involvement of the United States Government.

Society. Society is saying what it always wishes to say. But what even is society? Society is defined by the Merriam-Webster dictionary as, "people, in general, thought of as living together in organized communities with shared laws, traditions, and values."

Americans blame society out of ignorance, because society by definition is not a "what" but is, in fact, a "who." I am society. You are society. We all are society. So when we blame our current issues on this "who" called society, we are really just blaming ourselves. Think about it -- America can fix its excuses by fixing ourselves.

Society says we must all portray the same body image.

Obese women report that only "skinny women" are accepted by society's image. Thin women report that "obese women" declare them as "too skinny" or "anorexic." When in reality, the categorization of both terms "obese" and "thin" have no purpose to exist because society doesn't create them, we do. We have the ability to love our selves the same and this issue would cease to exist. Rather than blaming society, we should blame ourselves because we have the power to fix it.

Society says we are not allowed to be ourselves.

This is a good one. Creativity is stripped from the minds of children at a very young age. They are immediately put on the assembly line of life expecting to follow the same pattern, and share the same ideas. We put things into categories from the start. "Athletes" follow one path. The "nerds" follow another, etc. America blames this system on society from the start when in reality we have the ability to change it. Let young minds stay creative. Let students choose their path of life by engaging them in education rather than forcing it down their throats. Let people become who they wish to become without the barcode of normality. It is not necessary to blame society because we would only be hypocritically blaming ourselves. We can fix it.

Society labels certain races as inferior.

This label is significant to the balance of our country. There are endless debates about race by the excuse of society. In America it is reported that society determines the power held by the races. When in reality we are all people with thoughts and motivations. We are people with families who share love. We have the ability to change this issue by advertising that all lives matter. Rather than blaming each other and the past, we can change the present by not blaming society and fixing the issue ourselves. We are the faces of society so we have all right to resolve the issue.

Society says the government has too much power.

Abraham Lincoln stated in the Gettysburg Address, "government of the people, by the people, for the people, shall not perish from the Earth." We blame society for giving the government too much power rather than giving it to the people. We as individuals are behind the wheel on this issue. If we want the government to have less control of our decisions, then we as people must make it that way rather than giving the blame to "society."

Blaming society for our social pressures is America's greatest excuse. But if you think about it -- society does not even exist. It is a term we have created to describe our own minds. We are individuals who have the power to change the view of the world around us.

Report this Content
This article has not been reviewed by Odyssey HQ and solely reflects the ideas and opinions of the creator.
Featured

15 Mind-Bending Riddles

Hopefully they will make you laugh.

196447
 Ilistrated image of the planet and images of questions
StableDiffusion

I've been super busy lately with school work, studying, etc. Besides the fact that I do nothing but AP chemistry and AP economics, I constantly think of stupid questions that are almost impossible to answer. So, maybe you could answer them for me, and if not then we can both wonder what the answers to these 15 questions could be.

Keep Reading...Show less
Entertainment

Most Epic Aurora Borealis Photos: October 2024

As if May wasn't enough, a truly spectacular Northern Lights show lit up the sky on Oct. 10, 2024

18580
stunning aurora borealis display over a forest of trees and lake
StableDiffusion

From sea to shining sea, the United States was uniquely positioned for an incredible Aurora Borealis display on Thursday, Oct. 10, 2024, going into Friday, Oct. 11.

It was the second time this year after an historic geomagnetic storm in May 2024. Those Northern Lights were visible in Europe and North America, just like this latest rendition.

Keep Reading...Show less
 silhouette of a woman on the beach at sunrise
StableDiffusion

Content warning: This article contains descriptions of suicide/suicidal thoughts.

When you are feeling down, please know that there are many reasons to keep living.

Keep Reading...Show less
Relationships

Power of Love Letters

I don't think I say it enough...

460659
Illistrated image of a letter with 2 red hearts
StableDiffusion

To My Loving Boyfriend,

  • Thank you for all that you do for me
  • Thank you for working through disagreements with me
  • Thank you for always supporting me
  • I appreciate you more than words can express
  • You have helped me grow and become a better person
  • I can't wait to see where life takes us next
  • I promise to cherish every moment with you
  • Thank you for being my best friend and confidante
  • I love you and everything you do

To start off, here's something I don't say nearly enough: thank you. Thank you, thank you, thank you from the bottom of my heart. You do so much for me that I can't even put into words how much I appreciate everything you do - and have done - for me over the course of our relationship so far. While every couple has their fair share of tiffs and disagreements, thank you for getting through all of them with me and making us a better couple at the other end. With any argument, we don't just throw in the towel and say we're done, but we work towards a solution that puts us in a greater place each day. Thank you for always working with me and never giving up on us.

Keep Reading...Show less
Lifestyle

11 Signs You Grew Up In Hauppauge, NY

Because no one ever really leaves.

28189
Map of Hauppauge, New York
Google

Ah, yes, good old Hauppauge. We are that town in the dead center of Long Island that barely anyone knows how to pronounce unless they're from the town itself or live in a nearby area. Hauppauge is home to people of all kinds. We always have new families joining the community but honestly, the majority of the town is filled with people who never leave (high school alumni) and elders who have raised their kids here. Around the town, there are some just some landmarks and places that only the people of Hauppauge will ever understand the importance or even the annoyance of.

Keep Reading...Show less

Subscribe to Our Newsletter

Facebook Comments