Social media these days has overtaken the lives of many, creating a perfect platform for various marketing endeavors and what seems to be an infinite number of social media famous stars. Regardless of all these so called insta-famous people, scrolling through your timeline, you're probably seeing your high school and college friends having an amazing time at their respective schools. You see the same school, the same friends with the same people, partying at the same bar. Looking through your Instagram feed is a mundane task, yet, sometimes it oddly brings out a certain competitive aspect.

Have you ever felt the need to post pictures of all the supposedly fun times you’re having? Ever thought about your own college experiences thinking that they fell short compared to that picture that got 250 likes? Don’t worry, you’re not alone. Various times in my own college career, I sometimes found that everyone looks to be having more fun than I am—going out every weekend, constantly posting snap stories, the works. I’m sure you’ve heard the saying, “Everything is not what it seems,” or something along those lines, right? I’m here to tell you that yes, as cliché as it is, this is probably the truest statement that you’ll continually hear in your life. In plain English, social media is deceptive. What people post is never the full story; the party could’ve been busted before they even got there, their Uber may have stood them up or they might have even just gotten dolled up "for the gram." Not only could plans have failed, sometimes people who look like they're the absolute best of friends don't really like each other at all. I'm sure you're thinking of some people in particular, right now, as I mention this.

Granted, you never know what truly happened until you ask, or you were there yourself. My point is, you’re probably not the only one feeling like you can’t keep up with everyone else. Go ahead and stay in those two consecutive weekends, maybe have a glass of wine and read a book instead, focus on yourself and your own responsibilities without feeling like you’re not living college life to the fullest. Never feel pressured to keep up with others. Remember, competition can be good, but indulgence will lead to your downfall.