Let's face it...College consists of the best, most exciting, and glorious times in our lives. However, it also consists of the most difficult, heartbreaking, and challenging moments as well. From winning football games and making lifelong friends to failing an exam (or in some cases a class) and feeling incredibly homesick, there are so many new experiences that it's hard not to get overwhelmed. Here's a few ways to keep your heart happy through college (and through the rest of your life).
1. Be spontaneous
Try new things, meet unexpected new people, pick up a new hobby. We could all use a little confidence boost and being spontaneous might just be the best way to do that. Wouldn't you rather try something than miss out and always wonder what could have been? Take a risk, travel undiscovered places, go on an adventure. The list never ends.
2. Eat
The freshman 15 may be a reality for some people, but there is no denying that it's next to impossible not to eat like crap in college. Pasta 3 times a day, 7 days a week is a norm for most people and you bet if there is free food on campus you'll be there. Realistically, life is too short to not eat what you want, when you want, and surely how you want. My advice to you is if you're happy, eat. If you're sad, eat. If you're mad, eat. If you are feeling any possible way at all, EAT.
3. Make connections
No, I'm not talking about the missed connections section of Craigslist. I'm referring to the idea that life isn't about what you know, it's about who you know. Get involved in your community, whether that be on campus, a local organization, or your church. There are so many opportunities that are presented if you put yourself out there. Meet new people and stay updated on current events and local gatherings. You never know who or what you may come across that could completely change your life.
4. Love
One of the most important things you will ever do in your life is love. Love your friends, your mom, your friend's mom, your mom's friend, your cat, your dog, your dad, your significant other, love everyone around you. Love them hard and with your whole heart. It's the little things in life that make it all worth it. A little love can go a long way and I promise you it will bring a smile to your face (and theirs). Laugh often, hug often, smile always... You don't know who could need it.
There will always be something in your life that you are not content with. If you are not content with something, then do something about it. So many people live their lives with a single hope in the back of their minds. "If only I had that new car." "I'll be content with my life when I get a new job." "I'll be happy when I have my degree." Since when is happiness a destination? Happiness is a feeling. Be happy. Smile. You never know who might be looking at you.
