Empowering others can be hard when you are just human yourself. We all have a story, and that is the important thing to remember. So how do we empower others when we have our own battles we're fighting? Really, there is no right or wrong answer. It is the answer that is within your own body and your gut feeling. So here are some tips to make someone's day a little brighter, even when you're struggling with your own battles.
1. Smile.
It is that simple. When you're walking to class, to work, riding the bus, etc. Just smile at others. It really lightens up your mood as well as affects other people in a positive light.
2. Ask someone how they are doing.
When you are getting groceries at the store, buying coffee, or shopping at a bookstore, just ask "How are you doing today?" It really does not take that much effort, but it makes people feel like they are someone, and allows them to feel worthy.
3. When someone tells you they are having a bad day. Ask why.
They are obviously telling you, because they need someone to talk to. Just listen, it could make a huge difference in their lives.
4. Do a random act of kindness.
Even if it's buying someone a coffee in front of you, leaving someone a post-it-note, etc. it is really the little things in life that matter. Just give it a go!
5. Give someone a compliment.
When giving someone a compliment it can be anything. However, I try to relate the comment to themselves as a person and not by physical appearance. Such as, "You have such nice energy", "Your soul shines so bright", or "You are so smart!".