6 Ways To Have A Healthy Relationship | The Odyssey Online
Start writing a post
Relationships

6 Ways To Have A Healthy Relationship

Love, love, love.

9
6 Ways To Have A Healthy Relationship

Lots of factors are important to maintaining a healthy relationship. When two people decide they want to be emotionally invested in one another, things sometimes become complicated. Here are a few ways to avoid the complications. (Disclaimer: These tips will in no way improve an unhealthy relationship. If you think you may be in an unhealthy relationship, please do your best to remove yourself from the situation. Here are resources if you need help getting out of the relationship.)

1. Don't stop going on dates.

This one is pretty easy. If you're thinking, "But I'm a broke college student, how can I still take my partner out on dates?" There are so many free ways to go on dates. Even just doing your homework together or going on a walk can contribute to the health of your relationship.

2. Talk to each other!

If something is bothering you, tell your partner! Having the problem build up in your head will only make it worse. Even if it's uncomfortable, you will be glad you opened up to them. Also, make sure your "talking" isn't just texting. You can't show emotion through a text in the same way you can in a conversation.

3. Be involved in each other's lives.

You have to be each other's biggest cheerleaders, otherwise this won't work. Be friends with each other's friends and attend each other's events. Also, if your friends do not like your partner, it may be a red flag.

4. Make each other laugh!

If you can't laugh around the person you love, are you really happy? Laughter is the key to your own personal health, so of course, it will also contribute to making your relationship stronger and healthier.

5. Your love should always be growing.

My love for my partner extents beyond just him, but to his friends and family, as well. If your love for your partner is not growing, then it is dying. It's important to want to know the people closest to your partner and have some serious love for them, too.

6. Be honest and trust each other.

It's hard to put yourself out there sometimes, especially when it comes to showing someone who you are. If you can't be honest or confide in your partner, that is the biggest red flag there is.

All in all, the most important thing about a healthy relationship is that you continue to love each other. If you find yourself not feeling this way, maybe it's time to gain a new perspective. The end of a relationship is not the end of your life; it is the beginning of a new you. Enjoy exploring who you are as a person. You can't love somebody else fully until you love yourself fully.

Report this Content
This article has not been reviewed by Odyssey HQ and solely reflects the ideas and opinions of the creator.
ross geller
YouTube

As college students, we are all familiar with the horror show that is course registration week. Whether you are an incoming freshman or selecting classes for your last semester, I am certain that you can relate to how traumatic this can be.

1. When course schedules are released and you have a conflict between two required classes.

Bonus points if it is more than two.

Keep Reading...Show less
Student Life

12 Things I Learned my Freshmen Year of College

When your capability of "adulting" is put to the test

4360
friends

Whether you're commuting or dorming, your first year of college is a huge adjustment. The transition from living with parents to being on my own was an experience I couldn't have even imagined- both a good and a bad thing. Here's a personal archive of a few of the things I learned after going away for the first time.

Keep Reading...Show less
Featured

Economic Benefits of Higher Wages

Nobody deserves to be living in poverty.

303101
Illistrated image of people crowded with banners to support a cause
StableDiffusion

Raising the minimum wage to a livable wage would not only benefit workers and their families, it would also have positive impacts on the economy and society. Studies have shown that by increasing the minimum wage, poverty and inequality can be reduced by enabling workers to meet their basic needs and reducing income disparities.

I come from a low-income family. A family, like many others in the United States, which has lived paycheck to paycheck. My family and other families in my community have been trying to make ends meet by living on the minimum wage. We are proof that it doesn't work.

Keep Reading...Show less
blank paper
Allena Tapia

As an English Major in college, I have a lot of writing and especially creative writing pieces that I work on throughout the semester and sometimes, I'll find it hard to get the motivation to type a few pages and the thought process that goes behind it. These are eleven thoughts that I have as a writer while writing my stories.

Keep Reading...Show less
April Ludgate

Every college student knows and understands the struggle of forcing themselves to continue to care about school. Between the piles of homework, the hours of studying and the painfully long lectures, the desire to dropout is something that is constantly weighing on each and every one of us, but the glimmer of hope at the end of the tunnel helps to keep us motivated. While we are somehow managing to stay enrolled and (semi) alert, that does not mean that our inner-demons aren't telling us otherwise, and who is better to explain inner-demons than the beloved April Ludgate herself? Because of her dark-spirit and lack of filter, April has successfully been able to describe the emotional roller-coaster that is college on at least 13 different occasions and here they are.

Keep Reading...Show less

Subscribe to Our Newsletter

Facebook Comments