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Six things to help you through a new relationship

What to expect during the first six months of a new relationship

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Six things to help you through a new relationship
Kayla Brown

Let's all be honest, starting a new relationship can be a struggle, especially after you've been back and forth with someone for an extended period of time. Here are a few things to expect during the first six months of a relationship:

1.) They may not understand what you've been through.

Being totally honest, after getting out of a long and mentally exhausting relationship, my past and all that I've been through struck fear into the first month of a new relationship. However, I was lucky enough to have someone that has gone through similar situations.

2.) People from your past popping back in.

You start doing well and finally feeling happy again, when people from your past decide to just waltz back in and suggest that you hang out. You know it's an awful idea, and you immediately tell your significant other and laugh about it.

3.) Sometimes life can get in the way.

Okay, maybe not life but the things life throws at us. This is probably around the time of your relationship that your “cupcake” stage is ending. You and your significant other may get into your first altercation. However, don't give up if it gets hard, power through.

4.) Their family becomes people you love.

This is by far my favorite. You finally feel like you're accepted by their family and yes, there could be ups and downs, but hey, when aren't there?

5.) COMMUNICATE ! ! ! !

Okay, look: communication is key to everything. Without it and cooperation, a relationship may not be able to blossom.

6.) It will flow naturally.

Your relationship shouldn't be something that you have to force. You have to put effort, yes, but you cannot force someone to be with you. Let it flow on it’s own.

A relationship can often be complicated, but make it easier on yourself and your significant other by taking some of this advice.

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