Now that I have your attention, welcome. This journey I'm on isn't for the faint of heart. You see, I've had my share of relationships. I never allowed anyone to get close enough to my heart, but sharing my bed was another matter. Keeping relationships on the surface allowed me to guard my heart. Emotionally unattached, allowing them to see only what I allowed them to see. The strong independent woman. The beautifully crafted persona of a real-life Superwoman. I used my sexuality to create a barrier for my heart, no one was able to get that deep, fearing that it would destroy me. I knew once we crossed that line the hope for a future vanished. You see I was on a journey for more. It's easy to open your bed, but harder to get to the very core of a person and truly love them, not in spite of their flaws, but because their flaws show that even superheroes are human. I've made the decision that my journey to enough includes a pathway to sexual purity. I'm tired of surface level relationships. My future is dependent on my ability to stay this course. I'm called to lead, not to conform. In order to fulfill the promises that God has got my life, I have to be obedient in this season. Just as I'm on my journey to enough, my journey to more, I know my husband is too.