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I'm Single And Waiting

It takes a strong person to remain single in a world that is accustomed to settling with anything just to say they have something.

Emily Ryan Turner

Aug 01, 2016

Francis Marion University

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I am a very stubborn person. I guess you could say that I have “high standards,” but to me, I think they are all pretty reasonable. I can truthfully say that my dating life isn’t all that great.

It seems like the bad guys I want to keep around, and I push the good ones away. Unfortunately, sometimes the timing just isn’t that great to rush into a relationship or the guy I thought was good turns out to be bad. This cycle can be no more!

I’m sure all my friends are ready for me to finally date someone so they don’t have be dragged around town with all the shenanigans that I want to do. And I'm sure they are tired of hearing me say. "I want a boyfriend."

It is true; I want a boyfriend!

However, I will wait. I will wait for the right guy to come along to prove that all my prior failed attempts were worth failing. I want more than just a title. I want a true love.

I believe in the kind of love that doesn’t demand me to prove my worth and sit in anxiety. I crave a natural connection, where my soul is able to recognize a feeling of home in another. Something free-flowing, something simple. Something that allows me to be me without question.

I want to find a heart that will love me at my worst and arms that will hold me at my weakest. I trust that one day I am going to meet someone who invests in me and wholeheartedly cares. I’m going to meet someone who is attentive to my needs and wants. I am going to meet someone who is so clear and bold with their love for me. I am excited for that day.

I want to be with a man who loves the Lord. I want them to love God more than they love me. I want it so our relationship with God is the supernatural relationship that pours into us so we can pour into each other.

I am not perfect. I am flawed. I have made some awful mistakes in my lifetime. But God forgave me. The right man will love me for my mistakes because they made me a better person.

If I can love the wrong person so much, I can only imagine how much I can love the right one. I am trying to be careful to not confuse the wait for an answer from God with there being no answer from God. I will wait patiently on Him. He will answer me when He knows the time is right to answer.

I don’t want to go searching for someone. I don’t want to be left with swiping right or left or the dreadful poking option on Facebook. I sort of wish finding true love was like what I see in movies, but it's not and that's OK. I will wait for the right person to pursue me.

I will wait for someone to make an ordinary moment seem magical. I will wait for the kind of person who brings out the best in me and wants me to be a better person. I will wait for the person who will be my best friend. I will wait for the person who will drop everything to be with me at any time, no matter what the circumstances.

It takes a strong person to remain single in a world that is accustomed to settling with anything just to say they have something. Just because I am single doesn’t mean I am lonely; it just means I’m resting my heart until its ready to love again.

I know the right someone is out there. One day, God will send him my way. Until then, I'm single and waiting.

"Love is patient, Love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not self-seeking. It is not easily angered, it keeps no records of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil, but rejoices wit the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always preserves. Love never fails." 1 Corinthians 13:4-8

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1. I will wake up (sorta) on time for class.

2. I will look decent for class.

3. I will go to the gym more.

4. I will go to the library and study more.

5. I will meet new people.

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5. In the words of Lorelai Gilmore "Coffee, Coffee, Coffee"

Oh, so done.

You need sleep, but also have 13 things due in the span of 4 days.

1. When it's December 1 and you have seven things due, three exams, and haven't slept in three days.

2. So you stress.

3. And cry.

4. Then call your mom to cry some more.

5. After the pep talk, you feel determined to get everything done.

6. But, now you're tired.

7. And really hungry.

8. Suddenly, it's 2 a.m. and you have only written three sentences and your paper is due in the morning.

9. You've made it to Friday... somehow.

10. Then Sunday hits and you find yourself back at the Lib.

11. So you cry some more.

12. But, you fight through the tears to get everything done because you're determined.

13. In the end, you feel on top of the world because you made it through the last week of class alive.

14. But, now it's finals week so good luck.

The ultimate list and gif guide to a college student's brain during finals.

What does the world outside the library look like?

Can I read this entire book tonight?

I should have gone to class more often.

Did the professor even teach this?

What is the lowest grade I can get on this exam and still pass the class?

Should I just drop out of school now?

Finals are ruining Christmas.

Just wrote three sentences so time for a break.

Need. More. Coffee.

What is sleep?

I'm too stupid for college.

Brain hurts.

Time for a Facebook Break.

I think I'm dying.

When will I ever need this information in the real world?

I can't read any of my notes.

I need my mom.

When was the last time I showered?

I need study snacks.

The struggle is so real right now.

"I want to thank Google, Wikipedia, and whoever else invented copy and paste. Thank you."

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2. We have a test today? Why didn't anyone tell me? Did I know this?!

3. Can I quit school yet? It's only October, and I need a vacation.

4. The struggle is so real.

5. I'm so broke. SOS.

6. Stressed? Eat everything you own in your pantry and stuff your face with all your feelings.

7. "Did we have anything due in class today? Homework? Quiz? Test?" "Not that I know of..."

8. I need food. Where is the closest place to get food? I need it stat.

9. This is the longest day of my life. I need a drink, or two, or three.

10. Sleep? What is sleep? What a foreign concept.

11. When someone suggests going and studying in the library, let alone studying in general.

12. When the cafeteria or student center is packed and you can't find a seat anywhere so you literally have to sit in an abandoned corner.

13. When you see someone you used to hook up with. They see you, and approach you; so you have to pretend like everything is normal.

14. When you get your exam and realize you didn't study as much as you should have.

15. When you crush it on an exam or paper that you totally bullshitted.

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