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Shaky Bridges Can Be Crossed Too

My last heartbreak was the worst, but I eventually got over that shaky bridge.

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They say broken hearts can’t be fixed until you find someone new.

They say it never will be the same.

Well, that isn’t necessarily true.

I am me again, if not better than ever. I have had my heart broken and repaired. My last heartbreak was the worst, but I eventually got over that shaky bridge. I did not find a new man, instead, I had my best friend by my side the entire time telling me I was better.

You did it! Give yourself a pat on the back. You got over them, be happy and give yourself "you time." Give yourself time to explore and enjoy the single life. You have worked so hard and it finally paid off. Go hang out with the friends you haven’t hung out with in a while, enjoy it. Don’t rush yourself into another relationship because you’re lonely, you’ve worked hard on proving to yourself that you could do it without them, so do it.

Do not let a heartbreak ruin you or your views on “love” and “faith.” You will get over that shaky bridge and live on. The memories will still pop up, but instead of letting them get to you and upsetting you, look at them as the old you, the you that was thought to be forever happy with that one person.

Now look at yourself, the you that is even happier with your friends and family that are always there for you. Nothing can beat that.

Stay happy, stay single, we’re too young to let a heartbreak ruin our outlook on relationships

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