My friend and I went to San Francisco on a bit of a whim — we weren't
expecting too much since neither one of us had gone previously, but
being able to check this event off my bucket list was totally worth the
drive. To say my experience was awesome would be an understatement. It was
empowering. The energy in the atmosphere of a solidified union representing our world was incredible. Imagine the San Francisco Civic Center filled with people wearing elaborate colors or even no clothing at all, with the sun shining down on us, and the amplified base cranked to the max. People from all walks of life were joining one another through dance, conversation, and even fried food.
There were all different ages, races, sexes, and most importantly - identities. I didn't feel as though I was a young woman who has always identified as heterosexual. I guess you could say I felt neutral and at peace, because the acceptance was at an all high. We didn't ask who was lesbian, bisexual, or trans because none of that mattered. Everything centered around celebration.
We met some fantastic people during our weekend adventure. James and Daniel from Ireland were the highlight of our Saturday fun, and the boys in Castro who told us to be safe were unbelievably genuine. The fact that Pride enables hundreds of people to talk to one another without a concrete excuse is bittersweet.
We are in a society where stereotypes plague us all. Yet, in this particular element, we are infinite and the importance of ourselves vanishes. The three main emotions of that weekend were love, hope, and happiness. We loved feeling loved. We hoped that at every vigil we saw for the Orlando shooting victims would bring them peace. And lastly, the happiness that was illuminated continues to shine through us all.
Those vibrant rainbow flags flying in the air are a perfect reminder of why we celebrate Pride just as we do for our own nation's patriotism. We've entered new revolutions and have gotten justice for things that mean the most to us. We've stood up for those who cannot speak for themselves and hope that one day, we will all be equal.
If you've ever wondered what it would be like to go to a Pride parade or the festivals involving the LGBTQ community, I would seriously recommend it. It changed my life for the greater good by showing me what it means to embrace everyone who wants the same desirable love.
Peace out, San Francisco.