With graduation coming up faster than you thought it would, you might be reflecting on the past four years with more scrutiny than usual. However, if you've done these seven things, I'd consider it to have been a successful four years.
1. Do something you’ve been afraid to do.
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Something that makes you proud of yourself. For me, it’s letting people read my writing. Start off small, to be realistic. Once you realize you’re brave enough to sing in front of other people, speak in public, or whatever else you’re thinking, you’ll realize there’s not much you can’t do. Life’s much easier when you just let yourself be yourself, I promise!
2. Realize who has been by your side.
The past four years, you’ve met a bunch of people who have made you who you are now. Who do you owe the positive changes to? What about the negative ones? You are now in complete control of who you let stay in your life. Go out of your way to show them how much you appreciate them.
3. Take a stance.
Now, you’ve been around plenty of different people with different views. What are yours? Don’t be afraid to defend your point of view, but stay open-minded. Try to understand other people’s points of view, and respect them even if you can’t!
4. Take control of your happiness.
Try to pinpoint a time in your life that you were the happiest you’ve ever been. What made you so genuinely happy? Figure it out, and make it happen again. Once you figure it out, make it a priority to work it into your future. Whether that means starting a club of your own or changing your major, do it. Put yourself in a position to meet other people with the same passion.
5. Recognize your strengths.
What is your #1 passion? Personally, it took me quite some time to figure out that pediatric nursing is mine. If your strength is being a good friend, make sure you’re in a position that you can be there for people when they need help. If it’s painting, paint! If it’s reading, read! Sounds simple, right?
6. …and your weaknesses.
What made you feel the most stressed? Were classes more overwhelming than they should’ve been? Did you have a hard time coping with personal issues? Research how you can make it easier and talk to whoever it is that makes you feel good about yourself (whether it be your mom, your professor, your garbage man, etc.).
7. Last but not least, have fun!
All of this can (and will) get pretty overwhelming. So, have fun! Hang out with friends; one movie night can make a world of a difference at the end of a rough week. You’ll be happy you did!!
