Stop Settling For Less | The Odyssey Online
Start writing a post
Relationships

Stop Settling For Less

Know your worth. Know the difference between what you're getting and what you deserve.

32
Stop Settling For Less
Public Domain Pictures

We've all been there. I know I have. Being with someone who truly, truly doesn't deserve you. And it doesn't matter how many times your friends tell you or your parents hint at it, you deny the fact that you deserve better. You may even start to believe that less is all you deserve. Well, you're wrong, as was I. If you're putting 110 percent into another person, you should be receiving just as much, if not more. The thought of "I don't deserve this kind of treatment" or "I wish I was with someone who did that" should never go through your head if you're with the right person.

Sometimes it helps to take your own advice when you give it out to others. How many times have most of us told our best friends, "you deserve the world, why are you settling for that?" but how come we never tell ourselves that? For some reason, it's impossible to admit to yourself when someone isn't good enough for you. A part of you probably wants to think they're going to change and treat you better. Odds are this won't happen. You deserve the very best and you know it. So stop settling for less.


You don't deserve to be cheated on. It doesn't matter who you are, what you do, what you look like, etc. Nobody deserves this. Never settle for someone who cheats on you.

You deserve the random romantic things formed from love. Random roses, dinner reservations, movie nights, or getting picked up spontaneously in the middle of the night to drive around and talk.

You don't deserve to be talked down to or to be shut down. You should be with someone who always wants to hear about your day, your opinions, and overall your life. You deserve someone who wants to listen to you day and night.

You deserve someone who is going to pick you. Who only wants you, nobody else. Don't settle for someone who isn't sure what they want. You deserve all the love in the world, find someone who will give it to you.

We know when we deserve better. Admit it to yourself, and go out there and find it. Stop settling for less than you're worth.

Report this Content
This article has not been reviewed by Odyssey HQ and solely reflects the ideas and opinions of the creator.
college shirt

These individuals excel in their studies, fueled by both natural intelligence and hard work. From the ambitious Entrepreneur to the talented Theatre Person, each student on this list embodies a unique aspect of college life and showcases the diverse interests and passions found on campus.

Keep Reading...Show less
Christmas Tree
History.com

Now that Halloween is over, it's time to focus on the Holiday Season. Don't get me wrong, I think Thanksgiving is great and can't wait for it, but nothing gives me greater joy than watching Freeform's 25 Days of Christmas, lighting peppermint scented candles, decking the halls, and baking gingerbread cookies. So while we approach the greatest time of the year, let's watch the 15 best Christmas movies of all time.

Keep Reading...Show less
6 Signs You Are An English Major

There are various stereotypes about college students, most of which revolve around the concept of your major. Unfortunately, we often let stereotypes precede our own judgments, and we take what information is immediately available to us rather than forming our own opinions after considerable reflection. If I got a dollar for every time my friends have made a joke about my major I could pay my tuition. One stereotype on campus is the sensitive, overly critical and rigid English major. Here are six telltale signs you are one of them.

Keep Reading...Show less
Entertainment

27 Things 'The Office' Has Taught Us

"The Office" is a mockumentary based on everyday office life featuring love triangles, silly pranks and everything in between. It can get pretty crazy for just an average day at the office.

3141
the office
http://www.ssninsider.com/

When you were little, your parents probably told you television makes your brain rot so you wouldn't watch it for twelve straight hours. However, I feel we can learn some pretty valuable stuff from television shows. "The Office," while a comedy, has some pretty teachable moments thrown in there. You may not know how to react in a situation where a co-worker does something crazy (like put your office supplies in jello) but thanks to "The Office," now you'll have an idea how to behave ifsomething like that should happen.

Here are just a few of the things that religious Office watchers can expect to learn.

Keep Reading...Show less
Student Life

10 Signs You’re A Pre-Med Student

Ah, pre-med: home of the dead at heart.

1871
Grey's Anatomy
TV Guide

Being pre-med is quite a journey. It’s not easy juggling school work, extracurricular activities, volunteering, shadowing, research, and MCAT prep all at the same time. Ever heard of “pain is temporary, but GPA is forever?” Pre-meds don’t just embody that motto; we live and breathe it. Here are 10 symptoms you’re down with the pre-med student syndrome.

Keep Reading...Show less

Subscribe to Our Newsletter

Facebook Comments