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It's Okay To Be Selfish In Your Twenties

These years were for us.

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As college students, it's easy to recognize that once you hit your twenties, things tend to change. Being stuck somewhere between childhood and adulthood is quite an adjustment. We have responsibilities but are still not always treated as adults. Having this kind of independence can be new to some people, and if you're someone who never worked or lived on their own before, this can be a bit of a shock. However, realizing that your twenties are some of the best years of your life--if you make them that way--can help to both assist you in figuring out who you are, as well as figure out what you like doing career wise.

Acknowledge that at this age, you should only be doing things that make you happy. Don't expect things to change after a long amount of time. If you don't like a job, try something else. If you're surrounded by people who don't support and love you, move on to new people. There's a lot of them out there. Don't be afraid to cut ties. Don't say no to anything. Immerse yourself in different friend groups, different hobbies, different career fairs, and different volunteer work.

Push yourself out of your comfort zone. These years are for you. It's okay to be selfish. It's okay to think completely of your own best interests. Put yourself first always, and keep pushing for where you want to see yourself in five years, ten years. Network, move, try as many things as you can. I cannot stress that enough. The only thing you could regret down the road is that you didn't try something. If you're truly passionate about something, now is the time to go for it! Make these moves with confidence. What do you have to lose?

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