Last week, I posted an article which questioned the state of sisterhood in my city. Naturally, I began thinking of ways friendships are established and maintained. I evaluated my own interactions with women in my community. Even more so, I evaluated my personal friendships. From there, I compiled this list of tips to strengthen sisterhood.
1. Celebrate each other. Whether it's body goals or professional goals, make a big deal out of it. Too often, women are scrutinized and made to feel less by society; we don't need it coming from within our community too. Leave the hate alone. Giving random compliments never hurt anyone.
2. Compete with no woman. This tip sort of goes hand in hand with tip one. If you celebrate your sisters, there's no need to compete. Competition often brews hate. There's room for everyone; success nor recognition has a maximum capacity.
3. Listen with an open mind and an open heart. When a friend, or any woman, confides in you, don't be quick to pass judgment. Consider that woman's feelings. Offer constructive criticism only. Speak, and act, in love.
4. Make amends; don't hold grudges. I find most female friendships end because of petty disagreements. We're quicker to forgive a man, and that's puzzling. Anyways, when there's a problem, let's sit and talk. It's rare a problem supersedes a true heart-to-heart.
5. Have a girls' night. This is a must. As with any relationship, sisterhood can be tedious. Your friends shouldn't just hear from you when you need something. Set aside some time to make some fun memories. Adult or not, I think we all can enjoy a good slumber party.
Remember, as a whole, it's important we come together as women. We have to be more considerate in how we address the women around us, not just in friendships. It is pivotal that we are genuine in our interactions. Moreover, social media is a powerful tool; let's use it to our advantage, not to our detriment. If we don't publicly love and respect us, no one else will.