As I lay here at 2:30 in the morning, I have started to think of how much my younger brother has grown, and how he will soon be doing all those senior activities that I once did not too long ago. Things such as senior pictures, senior nights, prom, and graduation. Although it makes me cry more than he will ever know, it also makes me think of all the things I wish someone would've told me during my senior year. We all look forward to senior year and finally becoming an adult and being able to do what we want, when we want, as long as our parents still say it's alright. During senior year, I wish someone would've told me not to rush because soon enough I would be three hours away, having to feed myself, doing my own laundry, going to the grocery store, and taking care of myself when I'm sick. It truly isn't as easy as my mom made it seem. (There were even times when I considered dropping out and moving back home.)

College isn't easy. Once you come to college you get to have fun, but you also have to remind yourself why you are here and keep yourself focused. You also have to keep up with all of your "adult duties", like washing your laundry so you have clothes to wear for the next day. They also didn't tell me you need quarters... Lots and lots of quarters, or else you're out of luck until you go home. Also, go on college tours every chance you get. They may start early and you may think you don't have enough time, but believe me you do and you won't regret it. I learned the hard way with this one. I didn't tour Indiana State until I came for freshmen orientation and I took a major risk in coming to this school. You also need to cherish all the things that your parents do for you. I can't tell you how much I wish for a home-cooked meal everyday.

Attendance is important. Show up for school! Believe me when I say senioritis is a real feeling. You may feel it everyday, but always remember the goal you are working towards. Let your parents and siblings take those "ridiculous" photos because, for them, they are so much more than just photos. Prom is stressful, but at the end, you'll be glad for all the stress. As for help, you are never too smart to ask for help. Whether it's for college applications or homework, you can't handle life alone. There will always be someone to help you. Make as many memories as possible and learn from your mistakes. The best part of making those memories and mistakes was that I got to share them with all the new people I've met.

Sincerely,

The Sophomore In College