For most of us, it is simple to overlook the true meaning of holidays. The way that holidays are celebrated are incredible and not to be disrespected in any way whatsoever, but it is extremely important to remember the true reasoning behind each one. It is natural to celebrate with pure enjoyment and the comforting presence of others. For example, Christmas revolves around gifts and Santa to bring about happiness, but families also make a great effort to recognize what is believed to have truly happened on this day; prayers are said, thanks are given and gratefulness is shown. This is what matters.
Memorial Day, held on the last Monday in May, is special; it is unique in an abundant amount of ways and sometimes we overlook the importance of it. It is common to spend this long weekend with family and friends, relaxing by a lake, grilling burgers and hot dogs, soaking up the sun, but while doing this, we are simultaneously forgetting what is rightly meant to be remembered. So, let's make a change.
Memorial Day is a day fully dedicated to the fallen soldiers who risked their lives in the United States Armed Forces for us, for all of us. It was created to be filled with remembrance for those who had lost their lives; we can’t forget this. It’s okay to spend this time surrounded by tents, boats and barbecues, but let’s not forget to have in our minds a prayer, a thought, or simply the idea of these brave men and women. Some families may even dedicate hours of the day to talking about and reminiscing on soldiers they have loved and lost. Although this day can be jam-packed with sorrow, it doesn’t necessarily have to be. There can be conversations about unforgettable memories, such as the joyful times experienced with these men and women and how their bravery was the reason we are able do many of the things we can do today.
While showing gratitude on this holiday, it is important to take into account the perspective of others. To young students, it is a day off from school when the fallen soldiers are remembered. But to Veterans, it is a day to remember friends and to remember the men and women who were on the same field or the same ship as them. Veterans witnessed the reasoning behind Memorial Day. They witnessed the true risks that we're taken for the sake of protecting our beautiful country.
The courage withheld in those who risked their lives to protect us is completely indescribable. I’m constantly inspired; my mind, soul and body overflow with amazement when thinking of their bravery. The importance of Memorial Day holds extreme significance in all of our lives. The lives that have been lost in war were lost for us. They have given us the protection that many people thought was only possible in dreams. We are able to proudly sing our National Anthem and leave our beloved homes without worrying about our families’ safety. The idea of a tragedy occurring isn’t on our minds because our country is protected; it is protected because of these men and women.
This week of Memorial Day, let’s take action. Thank a Veteran, place an American flag at the grave of a fallen soldier, attend a ceremony, thank families’ for the bravery of their loved ones, be there to wipe others’ tears, or simply say a prayer. It’s okay to celebrate this holiday with pleasure and laughter by a lake with a grill, but let’s all remember the true meaning behind this day while enjoying it. If everyone commits a small act or shares a simple thought of remembrance, the importance of Memorial Day will never be forgotten.
Thank you to all those who served in the United States Armed Forces to protect our country. You are all appreciated every single day and the gratefulness we hold for you will never fade.
